Friends of Eros

Posted On: September 18, 2019

This is Dr. Martha Tara Lee and I am a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist in practice for 12 years. It has been said that as helping professionals do not work in isolation and hence this is a list of my personal and professional friends/ colleagues whom I am happy to and proud to recommend.

I have listed them below and do come back from time time as this list will continue to evolve:



1. Dr. Peter H C Lim

Andrology, Urology, Female Urology and Male Infertility and Sexual Medicine (Male and Female)

Profile: I specialize in Andrology and Men’s Health in addition to treating women with FSD and urinary incontinence. Been in this field since 1980


2. Dr Li Man Kay

Senior Urologist in Singapore with special training in sexual counselling and interest in treatment of male and female sexual dysfunction.

Profile: Men’s Health issues and sexual problems




3. Dr. Simon Neo
Simon loves life and is genuine in his approach towards people. He is conscientious, diligent, energetic and a respectful guy. He often demonstrates unconditional positive regards towards others and carries with him a sense of humour that makes him a joy to work with. He embraces all clients with empathy and compassion and develop strong therapeutic alliance and trust with his clients.

Profile: Individual and Group Psychotherapy (Teens, Personal, Couples, Family)




4. Ms Danielle Barratt

Danielle has over 24 years’ experience in providing holistic physiotherapy care for women of all ages.
Her treatment sessions are all about empowering women to better understand their body, through life’s changing stages. Danielle’s special interest areas are in pelvic girdle pain, sexual dysfunction (VVS and Vulvodynia), bladder and bowel dysfunction, Incontinence and Diastasis Rectus (DR) closure.

Profile: Senior in Women’s Health Physiotherapy


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Childbirth/ Birth Doula Support

5. Angelyn Seet
I have been teaching Bradley Method Natural Childbirth classes since 2011 and am passionate about helping expecting parents and their babies. Expecting a newborn can be filled with joy as well as uncertainties and fear. My classes empower new parents into achieving the birth that they want and usually, this includes witnessing the best outcomes for both the mother and their baby. With my experience of teaching hundreds of couples as well as having myself attended more than 150 births in Singapore as a birth doula, I inject this knowledge and knowhow into my classes to help my couples gain a deeper insight into childbirth and parenthood.

Profile: Childbirth Classes, Placenta Encapsulation, Birth Doula Support, Prenatal & Postnatal Massage




6. Lionel Koh

Lionel is a man on a mission to help people live authentic and empowered lives with purpose, power and passion. He has spoken to, trained and helped thousands of individuals internationally to come to realise the true power within themselves. His company, Maven Communications Pte Ltd, which he founded with his wife Lisa, runs workshops, talks as well as provide mind clearing and coaching sessions.

Through his work, Lionel has touched many lives in the areas of: Clearing One’s Past, Communication Mastery, Death & Dying, Depression, Men’s Work, Life Purpose, Personal Boundaries Personal Power & Clarity, Relationship & Relating, Sexuality & Romance, Spiritual Problems, Stuck Life Conditions and Transitioning in Work & Life.

Profile: Mind Clearing, Emotion Clearing, Workshops, Facilitation, Talks, Seminars



Dance Classes

7. Anita Sadasivan

Dancer, dancer instructor and advocate for body positivity and empowerment.

Profile: Pole dancing, chair dancing and stretching classes




8. Monica Balani
Having worked as a paralegal for a Family Law practitioner for 9+ years, I noticed a blaring gap in the suite of services available to trailing spouses contemplating a separation. My practice is crafted around that very ethos: empowering men and women through knowledge, providing insights on what to expect and how best to prepare, circumventing unpleasant situations and in essence enabling informed decisions.

Profile: Advice on your rights as a spouse in Singapore




9. Felicia Tan (Design Workz)

I am a designer passionate about Graphics & Web Design. My friendly personality has enabled me an edge to communicate the importance of strategic designs helped clients in putting forward the message across.

With a keen eye for details and a flair for design, I have successfully conceptualised, executed and implemented creative solutions for a wide range of clients. I together with my team, we explore new ways of blending technology with art and takes proactive actions in implementing innovative design solutions.

Profile: Design | Publish | Print | Event | Web




10. Felicia Tan (Art of Life 22)

Felicia Tan is an ordinary woman who just wanted to have a family of her own. However, things did not went as planned and she suffered 2 miscarriages, but welcomed her rainbow baby boy in June 2015.

Today she founded Art Of Life (AOL) to speak of her experiences and shares how she can help women who faces similar situations.

Profile: Speaker




11. Yukiko Lim Makeup LLP
Makeup artist that specializes in natural and Japanese style of makeup and hairstyling. Makeup Certification from Taiwan, Korea and Japan.

Profile: Makeover for bridal, dnd, corporate shoot and personal makeup courses



Non-profit Organization

12. Mental Connect (Mental Health Non-profit Organization)

“Mental Connect” is a non-profit organization that focuses on connecting and facilitating the resources available in the ‘Mental Health’ and ‘Mental Wellness’ sector. This website currently serves a service directory, job opportunities, and latest events happening for users to browse, but we will continue to expand its functions to other purposes. We endeavour to create common space to facilitate conversations between ‘Corporates’, ‘Community’, ‘Practitioners’ and ‘Governmental Organisations’. We hope to promote information exchange between the parties, and move the mental health ecosystem in Singapore (and across borders) forward.





13. Andrea Emmanuel Koh
I am very passionate about sexual health-related issues especially sexual education and relationship. I have experience in educating the public about sexual related issues. I am also continuously improving my skills and knowledge to equip myself in this area. Currently, I have a Master of Sexology and a Bachelor in Psychology.

Profile: Sexual Education, Sexual consultation, and Sexual workshop




Dance Classes

14. Burlesque PH
Burlesque PH is the Philippines’ premiere brand for burlesque performances, education, and merchandise dedicated to building awareness and development of the art of tease. We are a group of sophisticated and whimsical individuals who see and interpret beauty through theatrical and empowering striptease.

Profile: Burlesque Workshops, Burlesque Performances




15. Cyd Crossman

I am a Certified Somatic Sexologist/Coach/Mentor, Sexological Bodyworker, Embodiment Practitioner, Pleasure Activist, Public Speaker & Journalist.

Working in the pioneering field of Somatic Sexology for 20 years, I am a passionate advocate in supporting you to find an enriched, sane and authentic relationship to your body, your inherent sexuality/sensuality and your pleasure, the most important relationship you will ever have.

Using practical and useful tools from time-tested traditions such as mindfulness, yoga, meditation and tantra, with cutting edge research in neuroscience, psychology and somatic learning theory, this comprehensive, educational, client-entered support gives you the opportunity to explore what is going on in your body and sex, in an open, safe and consensual space with the opportunity to ask, share, discuss, feel and relate.

By leaning into all our parts including the uncomfortable bits we can move through shame and inhibition to find choice, freedom and liberation.

I am available for in-person consultation in Mullumbimby (NSW, Australia) and available via Zoom for inter-state and international clients.

Member of:

Somatic Sex Educators’ Association of Australasia (

Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers ACSB (

United Kingdom


16. Dr Lori Beth Bisbey

Dr Lori Beth Bisbey is psychologist and sex & intimacy coach who has spent the past 32 years working with people to create and maintain their ideal intimate relationships. She has expertise in working with trauma, gender and sexual diversity, is kink and poly knowledgable. She hosts a weekly radio show, The A to Z of Sex on, teaches regular classes on and off line. She coauthored a book on treatment of post-traumatic stress disorder published by John Wiley and Sons in 1998.

Dr Lori Beth sees people in person in her London office and does intensive work with clients in various other locations around the world. She also sees people via video link (zoom). She is in Atlanta, Georgia, USA four times per year, California, USA four times per year, Washington DC twice per year and Vancouver, BC. Canada once per year where she teaches workshops, attends and speaks at conferences and works with clients intensively.

Dr Lori Beth is queer, married, nonmonogamous and in a 24/7 power exchange relationship with her husband of 10 years. Her mission is to take sex and conversations about sex from the shadows to the light.

Profile: Coaching, Therapy, Workshops, Retreats, Consultations, Education



South America


17.  Pyasa Neko Siff
Pyasa Neko Siff is an Evolutionary Activator, certified somatic sexologist, public speaker, and the author of The Intimacy Adventure Playbook. Her passion for sharing somatic sex education supports people to discover a felt sense of safety in the body.

Pyasa’s early childhood trauma led her to immerse herself in a process of sexual healing, this inspired her dedication to lifting the veil on the individual – and collective – sexual conditioning that has kept humanity limited and depressed.

Pyasa works internationally with individuals and with groups in workshops and retreats, creating a platform for participants to deprogram holistically. Her unique approach facilitates the release of unconscious patterns, and the reconstruction of neural networks to embody their original design.

Pyasa is based out of South America, where she has a trauma-informed private practice, she also works with clients online. She has created the online In-Bodied Love program, is a ‘Love Ambassador’ for the Pillow App, and has contributed to many popular online magazines. In 2011, the Q’ero people of Peru initiated her and her partner of 18 years, Vinaya, as healers in the Andean Mystical Tradition.

Profile: Sex and Intimacy Coaching, Sexological Bodywork




I hope this list of my friends will be helpful for you.

Let me know if you have any comments/ thoughts/ questions.

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice for more than 10 years, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore. She is also a Red Tent Women’s Circles Facilitator from Star of Ishtar.

Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic YogaFrom Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

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