Taking selfies of yourself nude can be a great way to explore your own body and sexuality. As a sexologist, I support people who wish to take such selfies of themselves nude as a way to become more comfortable with their bodies and to gain a better understanding of their own sexual desires. They can help one become more confident in your own skin, allowing you to explore your sexuality without feeling ashamed or embarrassed. Selfies can also be a great way to immortalize this time of your life, be used to share intimate moments with your partner, and allowing you to feel more connected and explore each other’s desires in a safe and consensual way.
Having said all that, taking nude selfies can be a daunting task. Not only do you have to feel comfortable in your own skin, but you also have to make sure that the photo looks good. As a sexologist, I’m here to provide you with some tips on how to take the perfect nude selfie.
1) Natural light
The first step in taking a great nude selfie is to find the right lighting. Natural light is always best, as it will help you achieve a more natural look. The best time for indoor photography with natural light is usually in the morning or late afternoon, when the sun is low in the sky and casts a softer, more even light. Avoid shooting in the middle of the day when the sun is directly overhead, as this will create harsh shadows and contrast.
If you don’t have access to natural light, try using a lamp or two to create a soft, flattering light. Make sure that the light is coming from the front of your body and not from behind or above you. This will help create shadows that will add depth and dimension to your photo.
Additionally, once you become more comfortable with taking such selfies, there are a variety of photography filters people can use for nude selfies, depending on the desired effect. Popular filters include the “Soft Glow” filter, which adds a subtle glow to the image; the “Vintage” filter, which adds a retro feel; and the “Black & White” filter, which creates a classic look. Other options include the “High Contrast” filter, which increases the contrast between light and dark areas of the image; the “Saturation” filter, which increases the intensity of colors; and the “Vignette” filter, which darkens the edges of the image.
2) Poses
Consider the pose that you want to use. The best poses for nude selfies are ones that flatter your body and make you feel comfortable. Try experimenting with different poses until you find one that works for you. Some popular poses include lying down on your back, standing up with one leg bent, or sitting cross-legged on the floor.
- Classic Pose: This is a traditional pose that emphasizes the beauty of the human body in its natural form. It involves standing with arms and legs slightly apart, chest slightly forward, and a relaxed facial expression.
- Seated Pose: This pose requires the subject to sit on a stool or chair with their arms and legs slightly apart, chest slightly forward, and a relaxed facial expression.
- Reclining Pose: This pose requires the subject to lie down on their back with arms and legs slightly apart, chest slightly forward, and a relaxed facial expression.
- Side Pose: This pose requires the subject to stand or sit sideways with one arm bent at the elbow and the other arm resting on their hip. The chest should be slightly forward and the facial expression should be relaxed.
- Back Pose: This pose requires the subject to stand or sit with their back facing the camera. The arms should be slightly apart and the facial expression should be relaxed.
- Arms-Raised Pose: This pose requires the subject to stand or sit with their arms raised above their head in a graceful manner. The chest should be slightly forward and the facial expression should be relaxed.
- Arms-Crossed Pose: This pose requires the subject to stand or sit with their arms crossed over their chest in a graceful manner. The chest should be slightly forward and the facial expression should be relaxed.
3) Props and Equipment
Once you’ve found the perfect pose, it’s time to think about props and equipment. If you want to add some extra flair to your photo, consider using props such as pillows, blankets, or even plants. Props can help add texture and interest to your photo and can also help make you feel more comfortable in front of the camera.
Use
- a tripod or selfie stick to get the best angles for your shots.
- a remote shutter release to avoid having to press the shutter button on your camera.
- a ring light for even lighting and to avoid harsh shadows.
- a soft box or umbrella to diffuse the light and create a softer look.
- a timer or shutter release to avoid having to press the shutter button on your camera.
- props such as scarves, blankets, and fabrics to add texture and interest to your shots.
- mirrors to create interesting reflections and angles in your shots.
When it comes to equipment, there are a few things that you should consider. First of all, make sure that you have a good quality camera or smartphone that can take clear photos. Also, consider investing in a tripod or selfie stick so that you can take photos from different angles without having to move around too much. Finally, if you’re feeling adventurous, try experimenting with different lenses or filters to create unique effects in your photos.
4) Self-care
When taking nude selfies, make sure that you’re comfortable with what you’re doing and that you’re not putting yourself at risk of being exposed online. Avoid taking photos in public places and always make sure that your face is not visible in the photo. Additionally, be aware of any potential risks associated with sharing photos online and never share them without permission from the person in the photo.
Do bear in mind that it is illegal to be naked outdoors in Singapore. Doing so can result in a fine of up to S$2,000 or a jail term of up to three months. It is also an offence to be nude in public places such as shopping malls, parks, beaches and other public areas. Offenders may also be charged with public nuisance or even indecent exposure.
By following these tips, you’ll be able to take great nude selfies that will make you feel confident and sexy. Remember to take your time and experiment with different poses, lighting, props, and equipment until you find what works best for you. With a little practice and patience, you’ll be able to create beautiful nude selfies that will make you feel proud of yourself!
About Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Dr. Martha Tara Lee has been a passionate advocate for positive sexuality since 2007. With a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a Masters in Counseling, she launched Eros Coaching in 2009 to help individuals and couples lead self-actualised and pleasurable lives. Her expertise includes working with couples who have unconsummated marriage, individuals with sexual inhibitions and discrepancies in sexual desire, men with erection and ejaculation concerns, and members of the LGBTQIA+ and kink communities. Dr. Lee welcomes all sexual orientations and is available for online and face-to-face consultations. Martha speaks English and Mandarin.
She is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in the region (as of 2011) and is also an AASECT certified sexuality educator supervisor (as of 2018). She strives to provide fun, educational, and sex-positive events and is often cited in the media including Huffington Post, Newsweek, South China Morning Post, and more. She is the appointed Resident Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society, Of Noah.sg, OfZoey.sg, and Virtus Fertility Centre. She is the host of radio show Eros Evolution for OMTimes Radio. In recognition of her work, she was named one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40’ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the author of Love, Sex and Everything In-Between (2013), Orgasmic Yoga: Masturbation, Meditation and Everything In-Between (2015), From Princess to Queen: Heartbreaks, Heartgasms and Everything In-Between (2017), and {Un}Inhihibited (2019).
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