“Our journey began with my mistakes—lust, infidelity, and self-delusion—a toxic mix that led us down a troubled path. The revelation of an affair shattered our once-solid relationship, plunging us into breakup grief and causing collateral damage to our family bonds. The aftermath brought self-shame, self-hatred, and haunting regret, worsened by psychological erectile dysfunction for me and my wife’s struggle with vaginismus.
These words can’t fully convey the turmoil we faced, layered upon life’s everyday worries. Seeking an escape from the abyss, we entered the seemingly futile journey of counselling services, only to sink deeper into despair without tangible results.
Fortunately, luck intervened, leading us to Dr. Martha, our beacon of hope. With her guidance, we started the challenging process of rebuilding, rediscovering ourselves, and healing our wounded relationship. The journey was far from easy, demanding that I confront my mistakes, summon the courage to “man up,” and face the harsh realities. Accountability to self and family became our recovery’s cornerstone.
Dr. Martha became our guiding light, supporting us through every step of affair recovery. With hard work, a resilient mind, and unwavering dedication, we emerged from the darkness, overcoming psychological hurdles in intimacy, including erectile dysfunction and vaginismus.
We learned that the recovery journey isn’t for the faint of heart; it requires relentless effort, a tenacious spirit, and an unyielding commitment to facing past shadows. Dr. Martha empowered us to reclaim control, offering hope that even the toughest journeys can lead to redemption. A warning to those on this path—the road to recovery is challenging, but with the right guidance and commitment, strength can emerge on the other side.” – Anonymous Male, 9 Dec 2023
About Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.
She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. In practice since 2009, she is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.
Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Clinical Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, Orgasmic Yoga, From Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.
Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.
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