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How I Help People Build Stronger Relationships and Navigate Sexuality Challenges
I am Dr. Martha Tara Lee, a relationship counselor and clinical sexologist, specializing in helping couples and individuals navigate intimacy, communication, and sexual wellness.
I work with people facing challenges in their relationships and sex lives, including those dealing with vaginismus, low desire, mismatched libidos, and other intimacy-related concerns.
My Approach to Counseling
My work is rooted in science, psychology, and sexuality education, offering a compassionate, evidence-based approach to help people overcome their challenges.
I provide a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space where individuals and couples can explore their concerns openly and gain practical, research-backed solutions tailored to their unique needs.
How I Help My Clients Get Results
1. Overcoming Vaginismus and Sexual Pain
I specialize in helping women and couples overcome vaginismus, painful sex, and anxiety around intimacy, using a combination of education, exercises, and emotional support.
2. Improving Sexual Confidence & Pleasure
I help individuals and couples reclaim their sexual confidence, explore their desires, and communicate openly about pleasure and boundaries.
3. Strengthening Relationship Intimacy
I guide couples in deepening emotional and physical intimacy, improving communication, and resolving conflicts around sex and connection.
4. Navigating Low Desire and Mismatched Libidos
I work with couples to understand the root causes of desire discrepancies, create deeper intimacy, and develop realistic, fulfilling solutions.
5. Healing from Sexual Shame & Trauma
I support individuals in processing past experiences, reframing limiting beliefs about sex, and rebuilding a positive relationship with their sexuality.
What Makes My Counseling Unique?
🌱 Holistic & Science-Based
I integrate psychology, sexology, and relationship dynamics to offer comprehensive solutions to intimacy challenges.
đź’ˇ Personalized & Practical
My counseling is tailored to each individual or couple, focusing on real-world strategies that lead to lasting change.
❤️ Judgment-Free & Compassionate
I create a safe, empathetic environment where people feel comfortable discussing even the most sensitive topics.
🎯 Direct Yet Supportive
I provide honest, straightforward guidance while offering the encouragement needed for meaningful progress.
Ready to Work Through Your Challenges?
If you’re facing intimacy struggles, sexual challenges, or relationship difficulties, I’m here to help.
đź’ˇ Book a 15-minute consultation today to explore how professional counseling can help you and your partner reconnect, heal, and rediscover pleasure.
About Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Dr. Martha Tara Lee has been a passionate advocate for positive sexuality since 2007. With a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a Master’s in Counseling, she founded Eros Coaching in 2009 to help individuals and couples lead self-actualized and pleasurable lives. Her expertise includes working with couples in unconsummated marriages, individuals with sexual inhibitions or desire discrepancies, men facing erection and ejaculation concerns, and members of the LGBTQIA+ and kink communities. She welcomes people of all sexual orientations and offers both online and in-person consultations in English and Mandarin.
Dr. Lee is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in the region since 2011, and became an AASECT-certified sexuality educator supervisor in 2018. Her fun, educational, and sex-positive approach has been featured in international media including Huffington Post, Newsweek, and South China Morning Post. She currently serves as Resident Sexologist for the Singapore Cancer Society, Of Noah.sg, OfZoey.sg, and Sincere Healthcare Group., and is the host of the podcast Eros Matters.
An accomplished author, Dr. Lee has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between (2013),  Orgasmic Yoga: Masturbation, Meditation and Everything In-Between (2015), From Princess to Queen: Heartbreaks, Heartgasms and Everything In-Between (2017), and {Un}Inhihibited (2019). Her contributions have been recognized with numerous honors, including Her World’s Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40 (2010), CozyCot’s Top 100 Inspiring Women (2011), Global Woman of Influence (2024), the Most Supportive Relationship Coach (Singapore Business Awards, APAC Insider, 2025), and the Icon of Change International Award (2025).
You can read the testimonials she’s received over years here. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.
    
    
 
