Blog posts by Eros Coaching
Posted On: January 26, 2026
This is a list of ALL my online courses which you can purchase at a glance… 1. Sex & Sexuality 101 As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist in practice since 2009, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a familiar name and face when it comes to positive sexuality and expression with her popular workshops and […]
Posted On: January 20, 2026
Sex positivity is often described as an openness and comfort with one’s own sexuality and that of others. However, to me, it signifies much more than mere acceptance. It is about fostering a comprehensive understanding of sexual health, pleasure, and well-being. What Does Being Sex Positive Mean? To be sex positive involves: Cultivating a Positive […]
Posted On: January 15, 2026
How I Help People Build Stronger Relationships and Navigate Sexuality Challenges I am Dr. Martha Tara Lee, a relationship counselor and clinical sexologist, specializing in helping couples and individuals navigate intimacy, communication, and sexual wellness. I work with people facing challenges in their relationships and sex lives, including those dealing with vaginismus, low desire, mismatched […]
Posted On: January 8, 2026
Ever noticed how months vanish but certain nights stretch forever? Time speeds up not because life is busy, but because life becomes predictable. When every morning looks like the last, your brain stops recording distinct memories and the days blur together (Wittmann, 2013). This compression is actually a form of trance—not dissociation as pathology, just […]
Posted On: January 5, 2026
You know the feeling. The text that finally arrives after hours of silence. The sudden warmth after distance. That ache in your chest when someone who was just here suddenly isn’t—and you can’t stop checking your phone, wondering what shifted. Your body floods with something urgent, alive, important. And you mistake it for connection. With […]
Posted On: January 1, 2026
We spend so much time learning to say “no”—and for good reason. Boundaries matter. Protecting our time, energy, and well-being is essential. For many women, especially Asian women, assertiveness training is transformative work, undoing years of being taught to accommodate, to please, to stay quiet. But there’s another side to this work that’s rarely discussed: […]
Posted On: December 30, 2025
I Asked ChatGPT: The Saddest Questions Couples Ask in the Darkness of the Night When love turns quiet, these are the thoughts that echo loudest. Question 1: Why does it feel like I’m sleeping next to a stranger? Answer 1: The silence between us is heavier than words. Question 2: Do they still love me, […]
Posted On: December 19, 2025
I started keeping these annual milestones as a personal record because so much happens in a year that it all blurs together. This list is primarily for me — a way to remember what I did, where my energy went, and what I showed up for. All this helps ground myself in reality when I […]
Posted On: December 19, 2025
Content warning: This article discusses child sexual abuse and institutional betrayal. When I read about the three preschool managers who covered up the sexual abuse of toddlers, I felt physically sick. And I’ve been trying to understand how we got here. What Happened The facts are straightforward but horrifying. In 2023, a 61-year-old preschool cook […]
Posted On: December 19, 2025
A French civil servant allegedly drugged over 240 women during job interviews over nine years, forcing them into situations where they had to urinate in public (Chrisafis, 2025). He kept a spreadsheet titled “Experiments” documenting times, reactions, and photographs of their legs. The story is horrifying. But beyond the outrage, there’s something we need to […]
Posted On: December 19, 2025
This week, the FDA expanded approval for Addyi (flibanserin) to include postmenopausal women under 65. CEO Cindy Eckert called it “historic” in her interview with TIME. And she’s not wrong about the systemic inequities. Dozens of sexual-health treatments exist for men; women have far fewer FDA-approved options for low desire. That inequity is real. But […]
Posted On: December 16, 2025
My New Words Learned From 2025 A May–December romance – Refers to a relationship with a significant age gap, where one partner is much older and the other much younger. The term reflects the contrast between youthful “May” and mature “December.” Banksying – Slowly withdrawing emotionally from a partner without telling them. By the time […]
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