A Belated V-Day Special: Love Actually

Posted On: February 26, 2017

Date(s) - 26/02/2017
2:00 pm - 7:00 pm

The Blue Lotus


Fall in love with yourself

Have you heard of this phrase: “We need to love ourselves before we can love anyone else”? This is so true. We attract what we are.

Just how can we deepen our love for ourselves by ourselves? My answer: Even more love. In this session, we will support you to reflect on how your experiences have shaped who you are; look back and see how much you’ve grown, and crystalize what you do want to manifest.

This workshop will delve into your:

  • Past – Examine the relationship past and patterns we have; and Release negative thoughts and beliefs in a burning ritual
  • Present – Get clear about the type of romantic/ sexual relationships you want; and gaining clarity of the qualities of the partner you want
  • Future – Visualise receiving your intention powerfully, and celebrating what you have reclaimed.

This is the most important relationship you have in your life – the one with yourself. Make your destiny a destination of choice, not chance or fate.You hold the key to the lock that is life. Join us and reclaim yourself.


“… a profound workshop that will help you overcome relationship mistakes by looking at the patterns from your past. Martha is an empathic and focused group facilitator who will journey with you through simple exercises that will unlock your conditioning and help you move forward into love. This five-hour workshop was beautifully paced and the time just flew by. Change does not need to take long and it need not be painful. Sharing experiences in a safe and confidential environment, under Martha’s guidance, will bring about great insights and maybe even a few laughs. Do not hesitate. Do this workshop and watch yourself and your love life blossom. Thank you to Martha and the other participants for their kindness and compassion. You do not have to do this alone. We are all in this together.” – Gisele Dussault, Sydney Australia, 25 Sept 2016

“I really recommend this course if you want to manifest the soulmate that you desire.  In this course, I realised stumbling blocks that have been rooted deep in my subconsciousness. Martha taught us a few ways to clear  obstacles from our subconscious. Its only now that I am in a better position to receive my dream partner.” – Anoymous Male, 25 Sept 2016

“The workshop yesterday was so amazing really was light more and deep hope for me and help me to connect with my self more, I like all parts especially when we share with other and the time line of our relationship life. Let me learn more about myself.” – Anonymous Female, 18 Sept 2016

“Very productive session that focuses on the right questions without going around in circles. I liked the structure of the program – Past, Present, Future – where we are able to face our issues one by one. It’s progressive.” – Anonymous Female, 20s, 6 July 2016

“Simple exercises well-explained by Martha which brings you back to yourself and you realise how beautiful you are, how emotional you are, and you fall in love with yourself again.” – Anonymous Male, 30s, 6 July 2016

“The exercise done to release the past was effective for me. There was an immediate sense of lightness and relief for me after the exercise. Martha shared much of her personal experiences and practices that worked for her which I felt was beneficial for me as well.” – Tan Jiatong, 6 July 2016

“When we speak of our first loves, one typically thinks of our first crush or lover, when in truth, it should be ourselves (or maybe even our parents, especially mom). My First Love workshop drove home that point, and highlighted the importance of loving myself first and foremost, being complete and whole before we could speak of loving another. I also had great fun visualizing and imagining my ideal partner.” – Ling Ling, 36, 6 July 2016

More testimonials here.

Date: Sun 26 Feb 2017

Time: 2 – 7 p.m. (Please arrive by 1:45p.m. Doors will be locked by 2p.m. as this is a deep process we are going into and should not be interrupted.)

Venue: The Blue Lotus. 39 Tembeling Road, Singapore 423582

Directions: Bus 33. If coming by cab (advisable), you may wish to tell the cab driver that it is a shophouse, diagionally opposite Kuam Im Tng Temple, and at the cross-junction of Joo Chiat Place.

What to wear: Please wear comfortable clothes as we will be doing activity on the floor. If you identify as female, you are encouraged to come in clothes that make you feel feminine.

Investment: Inclusive of tea break and lunch

Option 1: S$88 per person

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Option 2: S$128. Join our two curated panels on Sat 25 Feb (Includes dinner)

(Dating in Modern-Day Singapore 4 – 6:30p.m., and Relationships in Modern-Day Singapore 7:30 – 10p.m.)

btn Free30DT orange Divine Union: Witnessing the Divine in You and Your PartnerPlease note that no refunds will be issued if you have paid and cannot make it for the workshop. Replacement allowed. Do check out our media policy as well.

For enquiries, please email info@eroscoaching.com.

About the FacilitatorMartha s The Sexually {A} Man

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality, then launching Eros Coaching in 2009. She works with individuals and couples who wish to lead pleasure-filled and confident lives. Since 2011, she has been and still is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore. This accolade is only for those who meet the stringent requirements determined by AASECT, which is the leading professional organization for sexuality educators, sexuality counselors and sex therapists in the United States.

She takes prides in making sure all her events are fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. You can read the testimonials she’s received over her seven years of practice here.

Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published two books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, and Orgasmic Yoga. For her full profile, click here.

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