Melb – Our Love Lab: Penis Pleasure

Posted On: February 24, 2024

Date(s) - 24/02/2024
9:00 am - 5:00 pm


Penis Pleasure AU

Penis Pleasure: A Full-Day Workshop into Penile Massage, Oral Techniques, and Common Concerns

Unlock the secrets of the penis and take your pleasure to the next level with Dr Martha Tara Lee, Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. This full-day workshop is open to individuals and couples of all sexual orientations and gender identities, including penis-owners who want to learn more about their anatomy and those who want to pleasure them.

During this hands-on workshop, Dr Martha Tara Lee will cover a range of topics related to penis pleasure. You will learn about penile anatomy, warming up and playing with the cock with your hands, penis massage techniques, how to experiment with speed / pressure / rhythm, lubes, safer sex, and more. Dr Lee will teach massage techniques for penis owners and their partners, as well as fellatio techniques. These are therapeutic techniques often used in tantra and somatic bodywork to help clients with premature ejaculation (PE), delayed ejaculation (DE), and erectile difficulties (ED – not due to a physical nature).

This workshop is the ultimate experience for penis owners and people who love them. You will learn more than 20 penile massage techniques for frenulum, shaft, testicles, and more. You will also learn about different types of lubricants, the role of breathing for orgasmic experiences, how to experiment with heat, pressure, and moisture, and how to achieve long-lasting ecstasy.

This clothing-optional and hands-on workshop is open to individuals and couples of all sexual orientations and gender identities. Dr Lee’s pleasure techniques are based on the tantric penis massage techniques developed by Dr Joseph Kramer, and she has been teaching them since 2009 as a trained sexological bodyworker.

Dr Lee’s facilitation style is direct, straight-talking, and witty. You can expect irreverent jokes, personal anecdotes, and plenty of fun. By the end of the workshop, you’ll have a better understanding of penis pleasure and how to give your partner the best experience possible.

You might well save yourself years of heartache, confusion, and sexual anxieties due to lack of understanding about sexual functioning. All your emotions, questions, and laughter are welcome!

Here’s what you’ll learn:

  1. Gain a deeper understanding of penile anatomy, including the location of the elusive P spot
  2. Learn more than 20 penile massage techniques for frenulum, shaft, testicles, and more
  3. Discover different types of lubricants to incorporate into your sex play
  4. Understand the role and importance of breathing for orgasmic experiences
  5. Learn how to experiment with speed, pressure, and rhythm to achieve long-lasting ecstasy
  6. Master more than 20 blow job techniques
  7. Gain knowledge on what to do about swallowing, deep throat, and gagging
  8. Learn how to experiment with heat, pressure, and moisture

The workshop will be interactive and experiential. You can participate in penis massage kiosks individually or as a pair or witness if someone is willing. You can also bring your own sarong or towel to lie on, preferred lubricant, plastic gloves if possible, and pillow(s) for back/head support if you like.

Don’t miss out on this unique opportunity to take your penis pleasure to the next level! Register now and unlock the secrets of the penis with Dr Martha Tara Lee.

Structure of the Day:

  • Welcome + introduction
  • Sexual anatomy explained
  • Common Sexual Concerns of Penis Owners + What to do
  • Penile massage techniques. Participate in penis massage kiosks – individually, or as a pair, or as a witness if someone is willing
  • Follow along as Dr Martha does demonstration and explanation of penis massage with a live model
  • Group sharing + Q&A
  • Lunch
  • Fellatio techniques. Participate in penis massage kiosks – individually, or as a pair, or as a witness if someone is willing
  • Follow along as Dr Martha does demonstration and explanation of penis massage with a live model
  • Recap on overcoming common sexual challenges of penis owners: PE, DE, ED
  • Group sharing + Q&A

Interactive and Experiential parts:

The workshop is designed to be interactive and experiential, with hands-on segments. Participants are encouraged to bring their own sarong or towel to lie on, preferred lubricant, and plastic gloves if possible. Pillows for back and head support are also welcome (although the venue will provide cushions).

Participants can choose to do self-massage or have their partner (of any gender) practice the techniques alongside Dr Martha’s demonstration with explanation on a live model. For those attending alone, there will be opportunities to work with other singles, witness their practice, or simply observe the presenter’s demonstration.

Participants:  Couples can work together during the workshop, while singles may work on themselves, witness others, or work with other singles (although this is not guaranteed).

Core Benefits for Participants:

By attending this workshop, participants can expect to experience the following benefits:

  1. Increased sexual knowledge, confidence, and performance
  2. Letting go of the sexual shame around nudity and genital touch
  3. Understand the link between genital massage and common sexual challenges penis owners face – for instance, genital massage can increase skills around erection and ejaculation
  4. Increased confidence and creativity with penis play / massage


  1. Comfortable clothes
  2. Towel/ sarong for lying on the floor
  3. Preferred lubricant and plastic gloves (although these will also be provided)
  4. Pillow(s) for back/head support (cushions will be available)
  5. Water bottle
  6. Open mind and willingness to learn
  7. Your lunch/ snacks if you would like. Lunch not provided but it’s one-hour.

Date: Sat 24 Feb 2024

Time: 9 a.m. – 5 p.m. (8 hours inclusive of one-hour lunch)


R1 – AUD$250.00 by 30 Dec 2023

R2 – AUD$300.00 by 30 Jan 2024

R3 – AUD$350.00

Venue: Collingwood, Melbourne, Australia (Exact address will be disclosed upon confirmation)

Past Testimonials

“Martha’s workshop is informative, enlightening and most importantly, fun! We had the chance to learn different skills to please our loved ones, to improve our intimate relationship. After the workshop, you may know the male body and its pleasuring system better than your partner! Useful, practical and eye-opening! “ – Echo He, 20 Aug 2019

“Martha has conducted the workshop with high professionalism and positive learning atmosphere. Not once I felt shy or awkward to ask any questions. The techniques and insights, along with her experiences made the entire workshop engaging and relaxed. What I enjoy about the workshop are the tangible takeaways, learning the different techniques and method to pleasure the penis. This workshop is truly an art of its own. Thanks Martha!” – Bryan, 27 Feb 2019

“The course met its objective and I finally know the various ways of pleasuring my penis. Dr Martha is brilliant and amazing with good knowledge.” – Anoymous Male, 18 Oct 2018

“Hi Martha, thanks for the wonderful workshop. I really like the way you talk about sex and the anatomy of penis. You make the whole workshop so comfortable. Never thought of this at all. I came from a very traditional typical Chinese family background. I went to all girls school for both primary n secondary school. I am a piano teacher, so I spend most of my time with children. So I don’t really know how to mix with male friends. Actually I don’t have any male friend except my husband. My husband strong Buddhist follower. So we don’t talk about sex. Your workshop is really good for me to understand the opposite sex better. Thank you once again for the lovely fruits n foods n gifts. Looking forward for your workshops.” – Anonymous Lady, 13 May 2018

For more testimonials, click here.

Download the PDF brochure of Dr Martha’s February tour here.

Please complete the online form here and wait for confirmation before proceeding with payment.

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R3 – AUD$350.00

Email me your questions here!

Or want to ask Dr Martha some questions about this workshop in-person? 
You can book a 15min zoom session here.

Please note that no refund will be issued if you have paid and cannot make it for the workshop. Replacement allowed. Do check out our media policy as well.

Download the PDF brochure of Dr Martha’s February tour here.

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality before launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling in May 2018. She is the only certified sexuality educator and certified sexuality educator supervisor by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore. Often cited in the media, Dr. Lee is the appointed Resident Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society, and and She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-BetweenOrgasmic YogaFrom Princess to Queen and {Un}Inhibited.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

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