The Importance of Self-Love in Disability and Sexuality

The Importance of Self-Love in Disability and Sexuality

Posted On: October 12, 2023

As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, I have worked with many individuals with disabilities who struggle with negative self-beliefs around their sexuality. These beliefs can be deeply ingrained and can prevent them from experiencing pleasure, intimacy, and connection with others. However, it’s important to remember that these beliefs are not true and can be […]

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Masturbation in Singapore: Breaking the Taboo and Normalising Sexual Expression

Masturbation in Singapore: Breaking the Taboo and Normalising Sexual Expression

Posted On: July 18, 2023

Despite the cultural and religious taboos surrounding masturbation in general and specifically in Singapore, recent data from a survey by Womanizer shows that it is a normal behaviour that should be discussed openly. The key findings of the survey include: Survey finds 23% of girls in Singapore masturbate at least once a week, guys are […]

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Book Review: Sex Without Stress by Jessa Zimmerman

Book Review: Sex Without Stress by Jessa Zimmerman

Posted On: April 8, 2023

I recently read Sex Without Stress by Jessa Zimmerman and I was pleasantly surprised. This book is an absolute must-read for any sexologist. It offers a comprehensive look at how to reduce stress and anxiety around sex, while also providing practical advice on how to make sex more enjoyable. The book starts off by discussing […]

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Eros Coaching Online Courses – At A Glance!

Eros Coaching Online Courses – At A Glance!

Posted On: April 2, 2023

This is a list of ALL my online courses which you can purchase at a glance… ​ 1. Sex & Sexuality 101 As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist in practice since 2009, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a familiar name and face when it comes to positive sexuality and expression with her popular workshops and […]

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Kissing 101 Dos and Don’ts

Kissing 101 Dos and Don’ts

Posted On: February 13, 2023

Aside from its sensual nature, kissing should be both romantic and fun. Be confident and always go with the flow. There is no reason for you not to savor that passionate moment. Kissing 101 Dos and Don’ts 1. Look for a perfect spot Kissing requires intimacy between you and your partner. Any distraction in the […]

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Playlist on Better Sex

Playlist on Better Sex

Posted On: October 4, 2022

I’ve been contributed expert content towards SheThePeople TV for the past year. These are some curated videos for your easy reference based on previous videos I did for SheThePeople TV. 8 July 2022: How to speak up while having sex? | Answers Dr. Martha Tara Lee, Clinical Sexologist Communicating during sex is just a good way to tell […]

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Erotic Talk 101

Erotic Talk 101

Posted On: September 6, 2022

Your throat chakra doesn’t have to stay blocked in the bedroom as it did for me years ago. I wanted to but couldn’t speak up! If variety is the spice of life, then we can expand our sexual skills progressively. We can grow ourselves sexually and develop more confidence if we just try. By difficulty […]

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24 Apps for Meditation, Mindfulness & Mental Health

24 Apps for Meditation, Mindfulness & Mental Health

Posted On: March 21, 2022

Apps – love them or hate them, they are here to stay, and they can certainly make our lives better. Here are some for you to check out relating to mindfulness, meditation, and mental health. I have not tried all these apps, and have no vested interest nor affiliation to declare. 1. Aura: Meditation & […]

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How to Know You’re Good in Bed

How to Know You’re Good in Bed

Posted On: February 5, 2022

I wrote the piece Are you good in bed? 10 signs you’re an amazing sex partner for Honeycombers Singapore. This is a quick at a glance of the 10 signs! 🙂 How to Know You’re Good in Bed When we do something, we like to know if we’re good at it and if so how […]

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Sex News in Asia @ 2022

Posted On: January 8, 2022

This is a list of sex/ sexuality related news mainly in Singapore and Asia in 2022 which I took upon myself to compile only in 2022. This is because through my 13 years of being a sexologist, I’ve wanted but not seen a news/ developments listing specific to Singapore/ Asia for the year.  Day/ Date  […]

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Sex News in Asia @ 2021

Sex News in Asia @ 2021

Posted On: January 5, 2022

This is a list of sex/ sexuality related news mainly in Singapore and Asia in 2021 which I took upon myself to compile only in 2021. This is because through my 12 years of being a sexologist, I’ve wanted but not seen a news/ developments listing specific to Singapore/ Asia for the year. Each year, […]

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Purchase the 3-part Bedroom Confidence workshops!

Purchase the 3-part Bedroom Confidence workshops!

Posted On: December 12, 2021

Unable to attend a live workshop? Prefer to attend online and in the privacy of your home? I’m pleased to release the recordings from my Bedroom Confidence workshops conducted and released in Dec 2021. You can purchase one or all three of the recordings below: Under Bedroom Confidence virtual sexuality workshops, we are offering three […]

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