Passionate People – 2017

Posted On: February 20, 2017

In 2015, I decided to feature one passionate person every month because there are so many amazing people doing fantastic work, whose life is an inspiration to behold that I thought more people really deserve to know about them. Hence the idea for a monthly Passionate Person was born! This is the list for 2016. […]

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Book Review: Ecstasy is Necessary by Barbara Carrellas

Book Review: Ecstasy is Necessary by Barbara Carrellas

Posted On: February 5, 2017

Published in 2012, Ecstasy is Necessary: A Practical Guide is Barbara Carrellas’s third book, but the second book of hers I’ve read. I read Ecstasy is Necessary about one year after reading her other book Urban Tantra. As a sexologist, I read so many things about all things related to sex and sexuality that it […]

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An Orgasmic Life is Yours for the Taking

An Orgasmic Life is Yours for the Taking

Posted On: January 9, 2017

Trust me on this: being Clean and Clear is one of the way to an Orgasmic Life. Another way to have an Orgasmic Life is to practice Orgasmic Yoga. I am so passionate about Orgasmic Yoga that I actually wrote an entire book on it. I couldn’t find a publisher for it and eventually decided […]

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Book Review: Why Men Marry Bitches by Sherry Argov

Book Review: Why Men Marry Bitches by Sherry Argov

Posted On: January 8, 2017

I’ve read this book before, including Sherry Argov’s other book Why Men Love Bitches. I decided to re-read this book before giving it away – I’ve had to downsize my out-of-control library. This is, after all, a New York Times Bestseller and it doesn’t hurt to be reminded of some dating fundamentals being a sexologist. […]

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Books I Read in 2017

Books I Read in 2017

Posted On: January 5, 2017

I had set the goal of reading 150 books in 2013, and 200 in 2014, 2015 and 2016. I ended up reading 152 books in 2013, 202 in 2014, 168 in 2015, and 110 in 2016. Though I fell short of reading 200 books in 2016, I intend to read at least 100 books (halved […]

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Ever been told: “You are too emo”?

Ever been told: “You are too emo”?

Posted On: January 2, 2017

Emo is short for emotional. Were you ignored, neglected, or unseen, unheard growing up? Do you often find it hard to contain or control your emotions? And you’re this close to tipping over? Do you constantly find yourself feel scared, sad, mad or numb? Life feels like a roller coaster and you’re just going through […]

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Book Review: The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari by Robin Sharma

Book Review: The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari by Robin Sharma

Posted On: December 25, 2016

I am a fan of Robin Sharma. I love his book The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari: A Fable About Fulfilling Your Dreams and Reaching Your Destiny so much that I gave it away as a Christmas present to my friends one year. This book was also listed as one of top 10 books that […]

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Milestones of 2016

Milestones of 2016

Posted On: December 23, 2016

This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later. Day/ Date    What JAN […]

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Experiencing Festive Anxieties?

Experiencing Festive Anxieties?

Posted On: December 18, 2016

What are you going to be doing through the holidays? Are you looking forward to them? Or already hating them? Do you plan to celebrate? Or do you have every intention to be holed up at home? Or perhaps Chinese New Year is what you dread? Life can be hard, and it can be especially […]

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The Art of Pondering

The Art of Pondering

Posted On: December 11, 2016

Where did your 2016 go? What do you have to show for it? What are you proud of having achieved? What do you wish you could have done differently? And of course, as a sexologist, I am most curious about what you learned about sex and sexuality this year. Lastly, in what ways could I […]

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Book Review: A Year By The Sea by Joan Anderson

Book Review: A Year By The Sea by Joan Anderson

Posted On: December 11, 2016

When I picked up A Year By The Sea: Thoughts of an Unfinished Woman by Joan Anderson, I knew intuitively this was not a book I wanted to rush through. Published in 1999 and one of top 10 inspirational bestsellers on the New York Times, I savored it slowly and was better for it. Based […]

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