Sexual Consent: Women who don’t know how to say no

Posted On: January 2, 2012

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. This is part four of a four-part series on sexual consent. The other pieces can be found here: Sexual consent: When no is no; Sexually Confused: When No is a Game; and No Go: Too Drunk to Consent. In early December, paparazzi pictures of 19-year-old Hong Kong starlet, Rose […]

read more

Testimonial – Male Client

Posted On: January 1, 2012

“I was rather nervous when I was about to have our first session. I did not know what to expect. But I must say I was really surprise to see a very gentle and demure lady. I felt awkward and thought would she be able to talk about sexual issues? As we started the discussion, […]

read more

Why he strays: Is he unhappy with you or with the sex?

Posted On: January 1, 2012

This article first appeared in the October 2011 issue of Health & Beauty magazine published in Malaysia. Click image to enlarge/ read. Dr Martha Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching in Singapore. She is a certified sexuality educator with AASECT (American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists), as well as certified […]

read more

All I want for Christmas is…

Posted On: December 27, 2011

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. It started as a post on my Facebook: “Please comment: What I want for Christmas is…” The answers came fast and furious ranging from: More positive sexuality: “Comprehensive Sex Education Programs in Public Schools!” for Dorian Gomez, Art Director & Resident Curator at Erotic Heritage Museum of Las Vegas. […]

read more

No go – too drunk to consent

Posted On: December 22, 2011

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. During the presentation “Promoting Consent, Preventing Coercion” by AWARE as part of SlutTalk on Saturday 3 December, I shared for the first time, how years ago, a male friend rebuffed me when I suggested we went clubbing. Me: “Hey, we should go clubbing together one of these days!” His […]

read more

Milestones of 2011

Posted On: December 22, 2011

Day/ Date     What JAN Sat 9, 15 Jan – Conducted With a Bang workshops, a project for Health Promotion Board FEB Tues 1 Feb – Launch of 1st Febulove Campaign www.febulove.com. It returns 1 Feb 2012. Tues 9, 16, Fri 25 Feb – Completed 1st Manifest the Love of your Life workshop Fri 11 and […]

read more

Testimonial – Condom Factory Visit

Posted On: December 20, 2011

“This was a very enlightening day trip as I witnessed first-hand the painstaking process that goes behind making a condom – from the creation of those thin rubber sheaths to how they’re finally packaged. You won’t believe the amount of work that goes into ensuring sure your rubbers are safe-to-use! Props to the factory staff […]

read more

Sexually confused – when no is a game

Posted On: December 13, 2011

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. As a follow up to an earlier piece “Sexual Consent: When no is really no“, I would like to discuss when the act of saying no is actually a game women play; or, when no is actually a heavily coded yes. When I first read this piece “No” Means […]

read more

Sexual consent – When no is really no

Posted On: December 12, 2011

This article first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. Recently, there has been a lot of discussion about what sexual consent means. As part of SlutWalk Singapore, a fringe event entitled, “Silence Does Not Mean Consent”, was held on Sunday 27 November. AWARE, Singapore’s only gender-equality advocacy group, released two information leaflets: “What is consent?”, as well as […]

read more

SlutWalk is not about Sluts

Posted On: December 9, 2011

This article first appeared on the Good Vibrations Magazine. As a sexologist in Singapore, I am interested in all news related to sex and sexuality; I’m also subscribed to the news feeds of fellow sexuality educators around the world. When I first read about the outrage of Canadian activists following the suggestion of Constable Michael […]

read more

Practising sex and mindfulness

Posted On: December 5, 2011

This piece first appeared on PublicHouse.sg. Have you heard the saying that sex can be a form of meditation? Annie Sprinkle, a performance artist and sexuality educator in the United States, combined the words masturbation and meditation to coin the word medabation. You, too, can practise mindful sex if you so desire. You may need […]

read more

Download: Dr Martha Tara Lee’s Media Kit

Posted On: December 2, 2011

Please download my media kit which attempts to answer most of the commonly asked questions about me: Who is Dr Martha Tara Lee? What is she about? Where has she spoken at? What are the workshops she has conducted? What is Eros Coaching about? Where has she been featured? How do I get in touch […]

read more