Case for Same-sex Marriage to be Allowed in Singapore

Case for Same-sex Marriage to be Allowed in Singapore

Posted On: November 10, 2022

Introduction In Singapore, there is currently no law that allows same-sex couples to get married. However, there are many countries in the world where gay marriage is allowed for both straight and gay people. Some of these countries are Australia, Canada, France, and most recently Japan among others. This means that many of them have […]

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Personal Story: Marriage Shock!

Personal Story: Marriage Shock!

Posted On: August 31, 2022

Growing up, I used to watch drama serials where a married woman would suddenly have a different hairdo the day after their wedding. Several times, I asked my mom why and she said, “That’s because she’s married.” Often the characters in these dramas would become worse off (not just from the new hairstyle but personality). […]

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For Women By Women Episodes : Women, Marriage and Intimacy and Women and Sexuality

For Women By Women Episodes : Women, Marriage and Intimacy and Women and Sexuality

Posted On: January 4, 2022

For Women By Women is a virtual video series by 6Productions. Women, Marriage & Intimacy | FWBW 6 In the last episode, we uncovered some serious heart wrenching stories about love and relationships. In this episode, we dive deeper into one facet of love & relationships: marriage, divorce and intimacy. Is marriage really the grave […]

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Books I Read in 2021

Books I Read in 2021

Posted On: December 24, 2021

I had set the goal of reading 150 books in 2013; 200 in 2014, 2015 and 2016; 100 in 2017 and 2018; 100 in 2019; 50 2020. This is how I fared 152 books in 2013, (Reached goal of 150) 202 in 2014, (Reached goal of 150) 168 in 2015, (Reached goal of 150) 110 […]

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How to Have Better Sex? @ SheThePeople TV

How to Have Better Sex? @ SheThePeople TV

Posted On: November 8, 2021

I covered 5 ways all of us can have better sex in this video (also known as sex ed for everyone). Discussed in this video: →How to get to know your own body for better sex? →How to know if your partner is the right one to have sex with? →How to have positive self-talk […]

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When Sex Hurts @ The Straits Times

Posted On: October 13, 2021

I was quoted in When Sex Hurts: More women in S’pore seek help for Vaginismus. I cannot republish/ reproduce it wholesale but you can read it here. Read When Sex Hurts: More women in S’pore seek help for Vaginismus here I specialise in supporting clients to overcome Vaginismus. Make an appointment here. About Dr. Martha […]

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Beyond Within @ TheHomeGround.Asia

Beyond Within @ TheHomeGround.Asia

Posted On: June 14, 2021

This is a 5 part video series called Beyond Within produced by TheHomeGround.Asia. I am in the first two panels and helped coordinate the other panels. Sexuality is a topic not talked about enough including in Asian society, so I am proud to be involved in making them happen! Hope you enjoy this series! Ep […]

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Detoxing from Toxic Relationships @ TheHomeGround.Asia

Detoxing from Toxic Relationships @ TheHomeGround.Asia

Posted On: May 18, 2021

Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee, family therapist Evonne Lek, clinical psychologist Mahima Gupta and host Lavania Rosie on the topic of toxic relationships. https://www.thehomeground.asia/detoxing-from-toxic-relationships Details here This is TheHomeGround Asia’s second episode of Beyond Within, a series of discussions on women empowerment and the struggles that women face. In this episode, […]

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Resource – Media Portrayals of Non-Monogamy

Resource – Media Portrayals of Non-Monogamy

Posted On: April 5, 2021

I’ve pulled together a resource list for you – media portrayals of non-monogamy i.e. movies/ TV series. I believe that the lack of non-monogamy portrayals makes people assume that the monogamous relationship model is the only one that exists. For a long time, the non-monogamy model is actually the one that is commonplace. When I […]

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Milestones for 2021

Milestones for 2021

Posted On: March 30, 2021

This is a list of events/ articles/ media interviews which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later. This is a bit of […]

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Anal Sex – The Necessary Hygiene, and Safety

Anal Sex – The Necessary Hygiene, and Safety

Posted On: March 23, 2021

This article was first published for PinkLifestyle.com here. Anal sex is a type of sexual expression that though not openly discussed is a sexual activity that still great number of people regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity have tried it or are curious about. In this article let’s talk about anal sex: what to […]

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Where My Desire to be a Great Communicator Stemmed From

Where My Desire to be a Great Communicator Stemmed From

Posted On: September 1, 2020

I was observing three older Chinese men talking at a cafe because they were SO loud. It is pretty typical growing up and in Singapore actually but I decided to take some time to observe since I do like people watching. I observed: They were talking to one another at the top of their voices. […]

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