Rekindling the Flame: Strategies for Managing Sexual Disinterest

Rekindling the Flame: Strategies for Managing Sexual Disinterest

Posted On: January 12, 2024

Sexual disinterest can be a difficult thing to navigate. It can be a source of frustration, confusion, and even shame. Whether it’s a lack of interest in sex, difficulty becoming aroused, or difficulty reaching orgasm, it can be hard to talk about and even harder to understand. This blog will provide information on the causes […]

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Commentary: The Challenges of Raising Children in Today’s World

Commentary: The Challenges of Raising Children in Today’s World

Posted On: February 18, 2023

As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, I often hear couples express their concerns about having children in Singapore. Raising children in today’s world can be a challenge due to the many changes in society. Parents must be aware of the: Increased access to technology, the prevalence of social media, and the ever-changing cultural norms. […]

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Case for Same-sex Marriage to be Allowed in Singapore

Case for Same-sex Marriage to be Allowed in Singapore

Posted On: November 10, 2022

Introduction In Singapore, there is currently no law that allows same-sex couples to get married. However, there are many countries in the world where gay marriage is allowed for both straight and gay people. Some of these countries are Australia, Canada, France, and most recently Japan among others. This means that many of them have […]

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Personal Story: Marriage Shock!

Personal Story: Marriage Shock!

Posted On: August 31, 2022

Growing up, I used to watch drama serials where a married woman would suddenly have a different hairdo the day after their wedding. Several times, I asked my mom why and she said, “That’s because she’s married.” Often the characters in these dramas would become worse off (not just from the new hairstyle but personality). […]

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For Women By Women Episodes : Women, Marriage and Intimacy and Women and Sexuality

For Women By Women Episodes : Women, Marriage and Intimacy and Women and Sexuality

Posted On: January 4, 2022

For Women By Women is a virtual video series by 6Productions. Women, Marriage & Intimacy | FWBW 6 In the last episode, we uncovered some serious heart wrenching stories about love and relationships. In this episode, we dive deeper into one facet of love & relationships: marriage, divorce and intimacy. Is marriage really the grave […]

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Books I Read in 2021

Books I Read in 2021

Posted On: December 24, 2021

I had set the goal of reading 150 books in 2013; 200 in 2014, 2015 and 2016; 100 in 2017 and 2018; 100 in 2019; 50 2020. This is how I fared 152 books in 2013, (Reached goal of 150) 202 in 2014, (Reached goal of 150) 168 in 2015, (Reached goal of 150) 110 […]

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How to Have Better Sex? @ SheThePeople TV

How to Have Better Sex? @ SheThePeople TV

Posted On: November 8, 2021

I covered 5 ways all of us can have better sex in this video (also known as sex ed for everyone). Discussed in this video: →How to get to know your own body for better sex? →How to know if your partner is the right one to have sex with? →How to have positive self-talk […]

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When Sex Hurts @ The Straits Times

Posted On: October 13, 2021

I was quoted in When Sex Hurts: More women in S’pore seek help for Vaginismus. I cannot republish/ reproduce it wholesale but you can read it here. Read When Sex Hurts: More women in S’pore seek help for Vaginismus here I specialise in supporting clients to overcome Vaginismus. Make an appointment here. About Dr. Martha […]

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Beyond Within @ TheHomeGround.Asia

Beyond Within @ TheHomeGround.Asia

Posted On: June 14, 2021

This is a 5 part video series called Beyond Within produced by TheHomeGround.Asia. I am in the first two panels and helped coordinate the other panels. Sexuality is a topic not talked about enough including in Asian society, so I am proud to be involved in making them happen! Hope you enjoy this series! Ep […]

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Detoxing from Toxic Relationships @ TheHomeGround.Asia

Detoxing from Toxic Relationships @ TheHomeGround.Asia

Posted On: May 18, 2021

Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee, family therapist Evonne Lek, clinical psychologist Mahima Gupta and host Lavania Rosie on the topic of toxic relationships. https://www.thehomeground.asia/detoxing-from-toxic-relationships Details here This is TheHomeGround Asia’s second episode of Beyond Within, a series of discussions on women empowerment and the struggles that women face. In this episode, […]

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Resource – Media Portrayals of Non-Monogamy

Resource – Media Portrayals of Non-Monogamy

Posted On: April 5, 2021

I’ve pulled together a resource list for you – media portrayals of non-monogamy i.e. movies/ TV series. I believe that the lack of non-monogamy portrayals makes people assume that the monogamous relationship model is the only one that exists. For a long time, the non-monogamy model is actually the one that is commonplace. When I […]

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