Eros Coaching Online Courses – At A Glance!

Eros Coaching Online Courses – At A Glance!

Posted On: March 11, 2026

This is a list of ALL my online courses which you can purchase at a glance… ​ 1. Sex & Sexuality 101 As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist in practice since 2009, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a familiar name and face when it comes to positive sexuality and expression with her popular workshops and […]

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Staying Present During Sex

Staying Present During Sex

Posted On: March 5, 2026

Staying Present During Sex Staying mindful in the moment can transform your sexual experience. Here’s a guide to help you reconnect with yourself and your partner. 1. Name It: If you’re feeling distracted or disconnected, say it out loud: “I’m feeling a bit off. Can we pause and reconnect?” Naming it can help you both […]

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Unlock the Adventure Within: Creative Date Ideas for Couples!

Unlock the Adventure Within: Creative Date Ideas for Couples!

Posted On: February 1, 2026

Dating can be hard, especially when you’ve been with your partner for a while and you’re running out of ideas for fun activities. It’s easy to fall into the same old routine of dinner and a movie, but there are so many other creative date ideas out there that can help keep your relationship fresh […]

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Where Did the Time Go? Reclaiming Presence in Life and in Bed

Where Did the Time Go? Reclaiming Presence in Life and in Bed

Posted On: January 8, 2026

Ever noticed how months vanish but certain nights stretch forever? Time speeds up not because life is busy, but because life becomes predictable. When every morning looks like the last, your brain stops recording distinct memories and the days blur together (Wittmann, 2013). This compression is actually a form of trance—not dissociation as pathology, just […]

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Milestones for 2025 (Dr Martha)

Milestones for 2025 (Dr Martha)

Posted On: December 19, 2025

I started keeping these annual milestones as a personal record because so much happens in a year that it all blurs together. This list is primarily for me — a way to remember what I did, where my energy went, and what I showed up for. All this helps ground myself in reality when I […]

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The Ultimate Birthday Gift Guide: Asian-Owned Brands in Singapore for Every Zodiac Sign

The Ultimate Birthday Gift Guide: Asian-Owned Brands in Singapore for Every Zodiac Sign

Posted On: November 15, 2025

Selecting the perfect gift for your significant other can be both delightful and challenging, especially when considering their birth month and astrological sign. For those in Singapore seeking Asian-owned brands offering exquisite gifts such as wine, jewelry, candles, and body care products, here’s a curated list tailored to each zodiac sign. Each recommendation includes one […]

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A Case for Gentleness: The Transformative Power of Self-Compassion on Well-Being

A Case for Gentleness: The Transformative Power of Self-Compassion on Well-Being

Posted On: October 1, 2025

In today’s fast-paced world, we often find ourselves in a constant state of urgency, chasing after results and pushing our limits. However, this approach can be detrimental to our physical, emotional, and sexual health. This article makes a compelling case for gentleness as a powerful tool for healing and growth, especially in the context of […]

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When Passion Turns into Prison: My First Marriage and the Hidden Dangers of Love Bombing

When Passion Turns into Prison: My First Marriage and the Hidden Dangers of Love Bombing

Posted On: September 2, 2025

Trigger warning: emotional abuse, coercion, narcissistic control At the 2025 US Open, Czech tennis star Karolína Muchová stopped mid-match in tears after spotting her ex-boyfriend in the crowd. She later regained her composure and went on to win (LADbible, 2025; talkSPORT, 2025). To some, it may have looked like a momentary distraction. To survivors, it […]

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Booklist: Dating for Autistic Individuals

Booklist: Dating for Autistic Individuals

Posted On: May 25, 2024

Being on the Autism Spectrum can present unique challenges in navigating relationships and social interactions, as individuals may struggle with communication difficulties, sensory sensitivities, and understanding social cues. This can lead to feelings of isolation, misunderstandings, and difficulties in forming and maintaining connections with others. Additionally, the neurodiverse nature of the spectrum can make it […]

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20 Sexual Terms used by Millennials

20 Sexual Terms used by Millennials

Posted On: May 25, 2024

  20 Sexual Terms used by Millennials Ghosting – When someone abruptly stops all communication with another person without explanation. 2. Cuffing Season – The period of time during the colder months when people are more likely to seek out relationships. 3. Thirst Trap – A sexy photo or post shared on social media to […]

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Just for Fun – Tech Support for Marriage

Just for Fun – Tech Support for Marriage

Posted On: May 10, 2024

The young woman who submitted the tech support message below (about her relationship with her husband) presumably did it as a joke. Then she got a reply that was way too good to keep to herself. The tech support people’s love advice was hilarious. The query: Dear Tech Support, “Last year I upgraded from Boyfriend […]

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Everything on Threesomes, Foursomes & Moresome

Everything on Threesomes, Foursomes & Moresome

Posted On: April 5, 2024

Everything on Threesomes, Foursomes & Moresomes What is 3somes, 4somes, and Moresomes? A threesome is a sexual activity involving three people, typically two men and one woman, or two women and one man. A foursome is a sexual activity involving four people, typically two men and two women. Moresomes involve more than four people and […]

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