Posted On: November 29, 2020
This is just a blog post to document the program of the first Sugar & Spice which ran Aug 1 – 15, 2020. 260 people registered to the festival. The program for the second Sugar & Spice (Nov 17 – 24, 2020) and third Sugar & Spice (Mar 23 – 27, 2021) can be found […]
Posted On: November 29, 2020
This is just a blog post to document the program of the second Sugar & Spice which ran Nov 17 – 24, 2020. The program for the first Sugar & Spice (Aug 1 – 15, 2020) can be found here. The third Sugar & Spice program (Mar 23 – 27, 2021) can be found […]
Posted On: November 5, 2020
I’ve been invited to podcast Just So We’re Clear twice and these are the episodes I appeared in 1) feet fetish, and 2) masturbation. 1) Feet Fetish It’s official! We’re back! Season TWO you guys… And we’re diving straight in on a topic we KNOW you’re curious about too. Sexual. Fetishes. Come on. You […]
Posted On: November 2, 2020
I recently concluded the first Love Abilities festival (Oct 15 – 19) as well – a virtual sexuality and disability festival www.loveabilities.org which saw 665 people sign up for the 5 day festival. 1,050 people attended the 29 sessions facilitated by 50 presenters live. It was considered successful with only positive feedback from participants.I am passing […]
Posted On: October 27, 2020
On grieving… my mom passed away 27 Oct in 2018 and I thought I’d write some of what I felt as a person going through grieving. I recognise it can be different for different people and I am in no way dismissing the experiences of others, just wanting to share what is mine in the […]
Posted On: October 20, 2020
Written in October 2019. Posting this as the 2nd year death anniversary of my mom comes up: I first started pet-sitting to overcome my fear of dogs and cats years ago. Last year, I had several dogsitting assignments (free or with honorarium) which all involved house-sitting as well – in fact more gigs than ever […]
Posted On: October 14, 2020
Everyday I wake up grateful for my life, everything I have going and everything I have. Increasingly my daily thoughts go to my dad for the unconditional and infinite love and support I have received and continue to receive from him. He has done more thankless, mundane, and menial things for me than anybody in […]
Posted On: October 4, 2020
Two Saturday nights ago (12 September 2020), I dreamed of my mom – the first time since she passed away almost 3 years ago now. In the dream, she was in her 30s and having some kind of white mask (like facial mask) on. I stirred and freaked out in my sleep (enough to know […]
Posted On: October 1, 2020
October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month in the United States. Was chatting with my girl friend about the abuse from my ex partners… “I’m glad I wasn’t physically abused. And maybe it didn’t happen because I was clear that was something I would never put up with…” Actually there was once my ex husband threw […]
Posted On: September 1, 2020
I was observing three older Chinese men talking at a cafe because they were SO loud. It is pretty typical growing up and in Singapore actually but I decided to take some time to observe since I do like people watching. I observed: They were talking to one another at the top of their voices. […]
Posted On: August 31, 2020
I was a panelist on Let’s Talk about Sex for Real, Student Health Forum organised by Asian Medical Students’ Association (AMSA) of the International Medical University (IMU) of Malaysia (AMSA IMU) on July 18, 2020. This is the recording. About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by […]
Posted On: August 31, 2020
A feature by Channel NewsAsia. I appear briefly in this feature highlighting the importance of sexuality education for children with special needs. I’ve been doing volunteer work for people with cancer and disabilities for a long time, but especially so in the last two years because of advocates who support this need within the organisations. […]
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