I work with clients who admit they are jealous or possessive people. I also work with people who are navigating opening up their relationship and jealousy comes up. In this post, I have collected some strategies on dealing with jealousy + there is a booklist at the end of this blog. Do like, share, comment […]
Fighting fair means expressing one’s disagreement or anger to another person constructively. There are healthy ways to have and resolve conflict. Yet in her couple work as a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, Dr Martha Tara Lee has met many couples who repeat the same fights for years, unable to resolve the issues, and the […]
I finally finished reading this book “Break the Grip of Past Lovers” by Jumana Sophia a few days ago and have recommended it to no less than three people, and passing on my copy to one. This book has been calling out to me to be read for a long time so much so even […]
“What is a kiss? Why this, as some approve: the sure, sweet cement, glue and lime of love.” – Robert Herrick How would you grade your kissing abilities? How would you like to be a better kisser? Or become masterful at it? Kissing is important. It is one of the most exciting, innovative, and romantic […]
Apps – love them or hate them, they are here to stay, and they can certainly make our lives better. Here are some for you to check out relating to mindfulness, meditation, and mental health. I have not tried all these apps, and have no vested interest nor affiliation to declare. 1. Aura: Meditation & […]
Autism is a spectrum and a typical characteristic of autism to have a low Emotional Intelligence (EQ). Being emotional and having emotional reactions is not necessarily EQ. Some Autistics study of emotions so they learn to recognise and manage emotions positively by developing their understanding. Here are some resources on the market you could explore […]
This is a list of sex/ sexuality related news mainly in Singapore and Asia in 2022 which I took upon myself to compile only in 2022. This is because through my 13 years of being a sexologist, I’ve wanted but not seen a news/ developments listing specific to Singapore/ Asia for the year. Day/ Date […]
When sex is interwoven with culture, values and religion, many of us do not get to experience or explore the full spectrum of human sexual expression possibilities until when coupled. I’ve often had clients asked me what is out there to do sexually since they don’t know what they don’t know. Whilst I really don’t […]
For Women By Women is a virtual video series by 6Productions. Women, Marriage & Intimacy | FWBW 6 In the last episode, we uncovered some serious heart wrenching stories about love and relationships. In this episode, we dive deeper into one facet of love & relationships: marriage, divorce and intimacy. Is marriage really the grave […]
I stumbled across crowd-sourced questions featured on The Independent and started making these reaction/ advice videos. Hope you find them useful! 1. His gf tests him with trivial arguments, insists on frequent dates and text bombards. What to do? Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee answers the question: “Boyfriend says […]
This free workshop was run by the Disabled People’s Association (DPA) and Eros Coaching’s Dr Martha Lee. This workshop hopes to assist persons with disabilities on their journey to self-love. Building a healthy relationship with oneself is key to building healthy interpersonal relationships with others. Chapter 1 of the Body Positivity Series tackles: Puberty Body […]
This free workshop was run by the Disabled People’s Association (DPA) and Eros Coaching’s Dr Martha Lee. This workshop focused on providing youths with disabilities a roadmap of the various stages of dating. By providing an overview of dating apps, to arranging dates and finally to addressing safety and consent, this session was curated in […]