In 2014, I am setting out to:

• Complete 365 drawings (one everyday) to hone my creativity
• Read 200 books (I didn’t say how thick!)
• Publish 52 articles on YourTango or my own blog (averages one per week)
• Go on 10 overseas trips (I didn’t say if it just to J.B. and back)
• Take 4 weeks off – take one week off every three months (Scheduled in!)
• Write 3 pages every morning for next three months, Jan to Mar (as in The Artist’s Way)

I will continue to:

• Move and meditate 30 mins a day
• Run my three online campaigns: Febulove, Eco Sex and Masturbation Month

The above are just some of my goals. The others are related to my financial and business goals. Are you curious about how I fared against my 2013 goals? In 2013, I did accomplish these goals:

• Publish my first book
• Read 52 books (146 as of 24 December)
• Watch 52 DVDs
• Ran my 3rd Febulove, as well my 1st Eco-Sex and Masturbation Month campaigns
• Completed designing and lived Laughter Yoga Singapore site
• Exercise at least five times a week (did it almost everyday)
• Meditate everyday

I did not:

• Develop more workshops
• Write and get publish as much as I could have had
• Move to a bigger office (just renewed my lease for another two years)
• Expand my practice to Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia

What I accomplished which I am proud of (but did not set out to do) in 2013:

• Applied for and recognised as Associate Certified Coach with International Coach Federation
• Launched The Crying Project
• Participated in the nu icon contest (and was recognised as 2nd runner-up for Best Clearly Expressed)
• Documented my 30-Day Orgasmic Yoga Journey

We can set goals and resolutions but sometimes, there are things that need a period of gestation before coming to fruition. And I have to admit that The Crying Project, nu Icon contest and Orgasmic Yoga – all of which happened in the last quarter of the year – brought me great joy! For more, check out my 2013 milestones here.

What are your goals? And specifically your sex goals? Do give your goals a think and leave your comments below! And remember, it’s not enough to just set goals. It is important to come up with a plan to fulfil them, which means setting aside the time to work towards them!

Look out for my first video for 2014 where I will be talking about goal setting! Subscribe to my enewsletter here!