Become a Patron!My episode with The SG Boys Podcast just dropped, and I’m so happy to share it with you.
I joined Josh Simon and Sam Jo for a fun, honest and cheeky conversation about love, lust, relationships, sex, and everything in between.
In the episode, we touched on questions such as:
- Can pornography be educational, or can it become destructive?
- Is no sex in a relationship a red flag?
- Can poor genital hygiene be a dealbreaker?
- How do past sexual experiences shape fear, discomfort or confusion around sex?
And yes, they also asked what my sex life is like as a sexologist.
The conversation also included personal reflections from Josh and Sam Jo, including experiences around sexual fear, choking, and the awkward, funny, vulnerable parts of navigating sex and intimacy.
I also got to hear from Joshua Simon about the amount of editing work that goes into producing the podcast. It gave me even more appreciation for the labour behind independent content creation.
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Confessions Of A Sexologist | with Dr Martha Lee
The SG Boys Podcast — Season 5
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About Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Dr. Martha Tara Lee has been a passionate advocate for positive sexuality since 2007. With a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a Master’s in Counseling, she founded Eros Coaching in 2009 to help individuals and couples lead self-actualized and pleasurable lives. Her expertise includes working with couples in unconsummated marriages, individuals with sexual inhibitions or desire discrepancies, men facing erection and ejaculation concerns, and members of the LGBTQIA+ and kink communities. She welcomes people of all sexual orientations and offers both online and in-person consultations in English and Mandarin.
Dr. Lee is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in the region since 2011, and became an AASECT-certified sexuality educator supervisor in 2018. Her fun, educational, and sex-positive approach has been featured in international media including Huffington Post, Newsweek, and South China Morning Post. She currently serves as Resident Sexologist for the Singapore Cancer Society, Of Noah.sg, OfZoey.sg, and Sincere Healthcare Group and is the host of the podcast Eros Matters.
An accomplished author, Dr. Lee has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between (2013), Orgasmic Yoga: Masturbation, Meditation and Everything In-Between (2015), From Princess to Queen: Heartbreaks, Heartgasms and Everything In-Between (2017), and {Un}Inhihibited (2019). Her contributions have been recognized with numerous honors, including Her World’s Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40 (2010), CozyCot’s Top 100 Inspiring Women (2011), Global Woman of Influence (2024), the Most Supportive Relationship Coach (Singapore Business Awards, APAC Insider, 2025), and the Icon of Change International Award (2025).
You can read the testimonials she’s received over years here. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.
