With Dr Martha Tara Lee and her enormously helpful assistant, DeEnormouS

It has been about three years since Dr Martha Tara Lee last offered this workshop publicly. Now it is back—with DeEnormouS assisting!

Learn how to give oral pleasure with more confidence, creativity and consideration. This is not about performing, copying porn or forcing yourself to do anything uncomfortable. It is about anatomy, communication, consent, pleasure and having more options.

Dr Martha has conducted this workshop more than 100 times in Singapore and internationally. Expect frank sexuality education, practical demonstrations, plenty of humour and techniques you can adapt to different bodies, preferences and boundaries.

You will learn:

1. Penis anatomy and pleasurable areas people often overlook
2. More than 20 fellatio techniques
3. How to vary pressure, speed, rhythm, moisture and temperature
4. Positions that may be more comfortable for different bodies
5. Ways to manage gagging and explore depth without pressure
6. How to use your mouth, hands and body together
7. How to ask what someone enjoys instead of guessing
8. How to make oral pleasure enjoyable for the giver too
9. Common mistakes, myths and unhelpful expectations

Techniques will be demonstrated using carrots. Each participant will receive a carrot for optional practice. You will never be pressured to participate in any activity.

There will be no nudity, sexual touching or demonstrations on any person.

Date: Thurs 24 Sept 2026

Time: 7.30–9.30 p.m. sharp

Arrival: From 7 p.m. Please do not register if you expect to arrive late.

Venue: Haji Lane. The exact location will be disclosed after payment.

Fee: S$89 per person

Includes: One drink, goodie bag, workshop materials and carrot

Age: 18 and above

Open to people of all genders, sexual orientations, relationship statuses and experience levels. Come alone, with a partner or with friends. One ticket is required per person.

Privacy matters: No photography, filming or media interviews will be permitted during the workshop. Participants are expected to respect one another’s privacy and confidentiality.

Come ready to learn, laugh and discover how much can be done with one enormously helpful carrot.

Led by Award Winning Sexologist Dr Martha

Dr. Martha Tara Lee has been a passionate advocate for positive sexuality since 2007. With a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a Master’s in Counseling, she founded Eros Coaching in 2009 to help individuals and couples lead self-actualized and pleasurable lives. Her expertise includes working with couples in unconsummated marriages, individuals with sexual inhibitions or desire discrepancies, men facing erection and ejaculation concerns, and members of the LGBTQIA+ and kink communities. She welcomes people of all sexual orientations and offers both online and in-person consultations in English and Mandarin.

Dr. Lee is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in the region since 2011, and became an AASECT-certified sexuality educator supervisor in 2018. Her fun, educational, and sex-positive approach has been featured in international media including Huffington Post, Newsweek, and South China Morning Post. She currently serves as Resident Sexologist for the Singapore Cancer Society, Of Noah.sg, OfZoey.sg, and Sincere Healthcare Group, and is the host of the podcast Eros Matters.

Assisted by DeEnormouS

A genderless creature from the planet Uranus. This creature is a dancer who can no longer dance, a singer that all cats love with make-up skills like IT The Clown but is ALWAYS the life of any party.

Known to swallow you whole… whenever on stage so, be warn as you’ll get sucked into a universe that will blow your mind. Last seen hypnotising in Singapore, Thailand, Indonesia and Malaysia.

Coming Soon to a local night market and wet dreams near you. Go Be Yourself and come into “DeEnormouS Haus Of Misfits”.