Posted On: May 18, 2022
Years ago, I had a fellow sex educator friend visit me in Singapore. She bought a whole bunch of things, wanted to lighten her suitcase and tried to offload stuff by gifting me her vibrator. I didn’t want it and she came up with the idea of gifting it to my mom all on her […]
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Posted On: May 10, 2022
Years ago, I attended an event where the speaker was apparently famous for talking about successful marriages. I remember being impressed and queued to get my purchased copy of his book autographed. Later when he was on stage, I was shocked when I heard him say he was qualified to talk about marriage because he’s […]
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Posted On: May 8, 2022
I’ve been contributed expert content towards SheThePeople TV for the past year. These are some curated videos for your easy reference based on previous videos I did for SheThePeople TV. 4 March 2022: What are orgasms? How to have them? | Explains Dr. Martha Tara Lee Orgasms look like a mystery to many and might be little hard […]
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Posted On: May 5, 2022
As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, I have many clients who are trying to conceive. From time to time, they ask about fertility-related products and so, I was very excited to receive sample products from TwoPlus Fertility. Partnership with TwoPlus Get 10% off twoplus Fertility Applicator using the promo code: EROSMATTERS Only eligible for […]
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Posted On: May 3, 2022
Years ago, when my office was at Purvis Street, a popular restaurant opened downstairs and a line would form infront of the only entrance up to my office blocking it every night. I started having clients walk right past the entrance not being unable to find my unit number, resulting in me spending more wasted […]
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Posted On: April 26, 2022
Love yourself because you’re the most important person in your life. If you don’t believe you’re the most important person in your life, live as if you’re the most important person in your life until you believe you’re the most important person in your life. Thriving only comes from a place of wellness. Each and […]
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Posted On: April 19, 2022
I believe in giving people three chances. First time, I state my boundaries. Second time, maybe you didn’t hear me the first time. Third time, it’s quite enough. But as I got older, I realise one more chance is sometimes one too many. People who continue to push boundaries simply don’t respect – now or […]
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Posted On: April 17, 2022
Now that Singapore is opening up to 10 max for social gatherings, I’m being pressured at all fronts to resume in-person workshops. I’m ok with mask-on situations but when I run a BJ workshop obviously there is the practice-on-carrot aka mask-off component to it. And the one time exemption I did an in-person BJ workshop […]
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Posted On: April 17, 2022
Today marks the anniversary of Eros Coaching – which started on 20 April 2009. That’s 13 years! A mentor of mine shared what he didn’t like about me yesterday i.e. 2 April 2002: that I was so inflexible around things and people. As we chatted, the layers within me unfolded. I remembered some of the […]
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Posted On: April 17, 2022
Published as part of Sexual Assault Awareness Month in April Many years ago, I had a male friend ask me out clubbing and if I drank. I replied I didn’t drink but would be happy to go clubbing with him one day. He was being flippant about fixing a time and finally retorted: “What’s the […]
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Posted On: April 17, 2022
I moved into my new office since 2 Feb 2022. Err I walked past Ms Durian cafe at least a hundred times and tried to go in only today (16 April 2022)… only to realise they’ve been opened quietly… since Feb! Ms Durian 11 Kelantan Road. Open every day 10a.m – 6p.m. except Tuesday. You […]
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Posted On: April 12, 2022
Years ago, I asked to speak to my boss and asked a promotion. He gave me invaluable input: “In order to promote you to manager, you need to already do what a manager does.” It really hit home. I was waiting for opportunities to grow. I was keeping to my lot. I was working to […]
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