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Date(s) - 12/10/2026
7:30 pm - 10:00 pm

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The Ex Files is a live conversation about former relationships, breakups and what we carry forward.

Dr Martha Tara Lee and Arjun will explore unfinished feelings, repeated relationship patterns, boundaries, closure, lessons learned and whether friendship with an ex is actually possible.

Expect an honest, thoughtful and sometimes funny conversation—without turning it into an ex-bashing session.

Join us for an unforgettable evening of laughter, connection, and celebration at our sex-positive comedy night!

Expect a diverse line-up of comedians serving up fresh, funny takes on love, dating, relationships, and sex. Every show is unique—so come ready to laugh, learn, and let loose in a supportive, inclusive space.

Sex-positive comedy uses humor to explore human sexuality in a respectful, affirming, and inclusive way. It opens the door to honest conversations about sex, relationships, and intimacy while championing values like consent, respect, and diversity. Our goal is simple: to entertain while creating a safe, empowering environment where everyone feels welcome to show up exactly as they are.

Date: Mon 12 October 2026

Time: 7:30 – 10 PM

Fee: S$30 per person, inclusive of one S$15 drink. 100% profits go to the comics
Alternatively, you may drop by for free—just support the bar directly (no proceeds go to us).

Venue: Blu Jaz Cafe, 11 Bali Lane, Singapore 189848

Follow @spw_comedy on Instagram for photos and videos from our shows.

S$30 per person, inclusive of one S$15 drink. 100% profits go to the comics

Hosts:

Arjun @arjun_yaps

A newcomer to standup and Singapore, Arjun centres his comedy on the chaos and confusion of being a stranger in a strange land.

His comedy weaves pithy observations of life in Singapore from an outsider lens. On stage, he is unfiltered, bouncing off the walls with his energetic delivery.

Sexologist Dr Martha @drmarthalee

Dr. Martha Tara Lee has been a passionate advocate for positive sexuality since 2007. With a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a Master’s in Counseling, she founded Eros Coaching in 2009 to help individuals and couples lead self-actualized and pleasurable lives. Her expertise includes working with couples in unconsummated marriages, individuals with sexual inhibitions or desire discrepancies, men facing erection and ejaculation concerns, and members of the LGBTQIA+ and kink communities. She welcomes people of all sexual orientations and offers both online and in-person consultations in English and Mandarin.

Dr. Lee is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in the region since 2011, and became an AASECT-certified sexuality educator supervisor in 2018. Her fun, educational, and sex-positive approach has been featured in international media including Huffington Post, Newsweek, and South China Morning Post. She currently serves as Resident Sexologist for the Singapore Cancer Society,Of Noah.sg, OfZoey.sg, and Sincere Healthcare Group, and is the host of the podcast Eros Matters.

An accomplished author, Dr. Lee has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between (2013), Orgasmic Yoga: Masturbation, Meditation and Everything In-Between (2015), From Princess to Queen: Heartbreaks, Heartgasms and Everything In-Between (2017), and {Un}Inhihibited (2019). Her contributions have been recognized with numerous honors, including Her World’s Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40 (2010), CozyCot’s Top 100 Inspiring Women(2011), Global Woman of Influence (2024), the Most Supportive Relationship Coach (Singapore Business Awards, APAC Insider, 2025), and the Icon of Change International Award (2025).