Eros Empowered – Sexual Techniques taught in a Safe Space

Posted On: May 19, 2017

Date/Time
Date(s) - 19/05/2017 - 21/05/2017
7:15 pm - 7:00 pm

Location
The Blue Lotus

Categories


Eros Empowered @ Singapore – Open to All Genders

Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee takes pride in being sex-positive, educational and light-hearted in her approach and has received only raving reviews in all her workshops! Release your inhibitions and ask your questions! Learns lots and have fun while learning.

Ticket  Price               Amount

All-Inclusive Ticket            S$438

1) 7-Year Itch                     S$48

2) Conscious Connecting  S$68

3) Vulva Pleasuring           S$118

4) Penis Pleasuring           S$118

5) Fellatio                          S$118

Please note that no refunds are possible once you have paid and cannot make it for the workshop. Replacement allowed. Do check out our media policy as well.

1) I Survived the 7 Year Itch (Fri 19 May, 7:30 – 9:30p.m.)

The phrase “seven-year itch” was first used to describe an inclination to become unfaithful after seven years of marriage in the play The Seven Year Itch by George Axelrod. This term suggests that happiness in a relationship declines after around year seven of a marriage. The phrase has since expanded to indicate cycles of dissatisfaction not only in interpersonal relationships but in any situation such as working a full-time job or buying a house, where a decrease in happiness and satisfaction is often seen over long periods of time.

In this session, Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee will share how she survived her own seven-year itch  – of running Eros Coaching. She will get candid about how couples can survive their seven-year itch – from sexual boredom, sex drought brought about by modern-life challenges, and affairs.

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2) The Art of Conscious Connecting (Sat 20 May, 2 – 4p.m.)

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Do you have difficulty asking for what you want in bed? Do you have a desire to be a better lover for your partner? How exactly can you connect intimately with your partner?

This clothes-on workshop explores the four different types of touch: Giving, Receiving, Absorbing, Allowing. Read more here. Understanding and practising these distinctions will change the way you experience touch and shift your personal, and even professional life fundamentally.

This workshop is not about sexual touch, but what your touch is saying about you. This is a fantastic workshop will reveal much about who you are as a person, what touch you prefer, as well as help you to improve your communication in and outside of the bedroom. Testimonials here.

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3) The Art of Vulva Pleasuring (Sat 20 May, 4:30 – 7:30p.m.)

flower 1805755 217x300 Conscious VaginaIn this workshop, Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee will help you to get to know the vulva and the vagina better, whatever your gender or sexual inclination. It will help you to feel more comfortable with this part of the body and more in tune with your own needs and that of your partner. It will cover the following topics:

  • Female sexual anatomy – including the location of the elusive G spot!
  • The role and importance of breathing for orgasmic experiences!
  • Erotic massage techniques for the labia, clitoris, vagina, and the G spot!
  • How to achieve long-lasting ecstasy!

Session will be held using sex toys, all in a warm and friendly environment that encourages learning and discussion.

“This short course allows me to better understand a woman’s body and also help my partner to explore and be in touch with her body.” – Adrian, 26 November 2015

“Very knowledgeable about anatomy, physiology, and sexology. Introduced new ways of understanding female sexuality and pleasure.” – Anonymous Male, 14 Nov 2014

“Clear, open-minded conversation and discussion, casual.” – Anonymous, Oct 2014

“The content and relevance.” – Anonymous, Oct 2014

“Thank you for your open and insightful sharing yesterday during the workshop! It certainly heightened my awareness of my own anatomy.” – Anonymous, July 2014

For more testimonials, click here

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4) The Art of Penis Pleasuring (Sun 21 May, 1 – 4p.m.)

Old Tree on SamosWelcome to the enchanting world of penis! Penises come in different sizes, angles, colors, smells and tastes. Let’s talk openly about this often misunderstood part of the anatomy and get all your questions answered. Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee will cover the following topics: penile anatomy; warming up and playing with cock with your hands, penis massage, how to experiment with speed, pressure and rhythm, lubes, safer sex, and more! where the best of her male genital massage techniques are taught.

You will learn:

    • Names to the different parts of the male anatomy
    • 20 penile massage techniques
    • 5 types of lubricants to incorporate into your sex play
    • How to experiment with speed, pressure, and rhythm

“Been subtly trying some of the creative sexy techniques you taught. Hubby didn’t ask about it but it definitely worked! I had the best sex of my life last night. Thank you!! Highly recommending this course to all my married friends!! (But secretly, of course).” – Anonymous, 21 Dec 2015

“A fun and relaxed class – very insightful on how to improve technique to pleasure my hubby.” – Yeow, 15 Dec 2015

Read more testimonials here, and here.

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5) The Art of Fellatio (Sun 5 Mar, 4:30 – 7p.m.)

600px-Cherry_Stella444Much more then simply a series of ‘tricks’, we’ll be exploring how to connect at a deeper level with the penis in this workshop. What is arising in you as the pleasurer? What is your relationship with your partner during fellatio? How do you engage in a way that is deeply pleasurable for you and the receiver? This workshop combines philosophy and practice. You’ll learn anatomy, techniques, deep throat and gagging as well as how to experiment with heat, pressure and moisture.

You will learn:

    • Names to the different parts of the male anatomy
    • More than 20 blow job techniques
    • What to do with deep throat and gagging
    • How to experiment with heat, pressure and moisture

“Wanted to say thank you again for such a wonderful evening of learning, laughing and improving our loving! You gave me more than I expected in that course Martha and the warmth, honesty and fun in the group really made it so easy to relax and take it all in. Thanks to each one of you ladies. Came home to a very curious and happy hubby and I must say, after 20 years of marriage we are enjoying sex in a way that even surpasses the “early days”! The craziest part is that I lost my notes, some lucky hotel employee may be using them as I write this! In spite of that, enough caught into my mind and imagination to bring to the bedroom and shift things up, for the enjoyment for both of us! So ENJOY the benefits of our evening together and Martha, if you can send me another set of notes thru email I would most appreciate it!” – Anonymous, 31 May 2015

“In this workshop, you delivered so much more than just a lesson on ‘how to please your man’. Your great sense of humour puts participants at ease. All the tricks and flourishes were based on an empowering message of open communication, mutual respect & enjoyment in our relationships. It enables us to lead the way toward deeper connection. When I put my learning into practice, the experience was very intense and amazing for my partner as well as myself. This has definitely opened the door to further exploration and deeper levels of intimacy. I’m curious to learn more and will look out for your other workshops!” –  L, Aug 2013

I want to thank you for giving this workshop blow his mind on 31st Aug! My Husband comment that I’m very different and said I’ve broke my own record today! He is very happy and did everything for me without having me to ask for it! I would like to attend more of your workshops again soon.” – Anonymous, Aug 2013

Read more testimonials here.

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Dates/ Time
1) I Survived the 7 Year Itch (Fri 19 May, 7:30 – 9:30p.m.)
2) The Art of Conscious Connecting (Sat 20 May, 2 – 4p.m.)
3) The Art of Vulva Pleasuring (Sat 20 May, 4:30 – 7:30p.m.)
4) The Art of Penis Pleasure (Sun 21 May, 1 – 4p.m.)
5) The Art of Fellatio (Sun 21 May, 4:30 – 7p.m.)

Venue for all workshops: The Blue Lotus, 39 Tembeling Road Singapore 423582

Directions: Bus 33. If coming by cab (advisable), you may wish to tell the cab driver that it is a shophouse, diagionally opposite Kuam Im Tng Temple, and at the cross-junction of Joo Chiat Place.

More questions?

Who are these workshops for? The curious and the brave of all sexualities and genders

I don’t have a partner to come with. You can and should definitely attend these workshop even if you don’t have a partner right now (or don’t have anybody to come with). These workshops are focused on teaching sexual techniques using sexual aids. If you do come with your partner, you can enjoy learning together!

Will there be touch or nudity? No, we will be using sexual aids i.e. carrot or toy. There is no touch even between partners.

Ratio of discussion to experiential? About 50/50 percent.

What should I bring? A wrap or sweater in case it gets cool. A water bottle is advisable. Tea, coffee and light snacks will be provided.

What should I wear? Please come loose-fitting comfortable clothes. We will be doing practices involving movement and sitting on the floor.

Ticket  Price               Amount

All-Inclusive Ticket            S$438

1) 7-Year Itch                     S$48

2) Conscious Connecting  S$68

3) Vulva Pleasuring           S$118

4) Penis Pleasuring           S$118

5) Fellatio                          S$118

Please note that no refunds are possible once you have paid and cannot make it for the workshop. Replacement allowed. Do check out our media policy as well.

Questions? Email Martha here.

About Dr. Martha Tara Lee

Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee decided to take it upon herself to right this societal injustice in 2007. She set out to make a positive difference in embarking on her doctorate in human sexuality, then launching Eros Coaching in 2009. Today, she remains dedicated to working with individuals and couples who wish to lead self-actualised and pleasure-filled lives.

She also holds certificates in counselling, coaching and sex therapy, and is currently pursuing her fourth degree – a Masters in Counselling. In practice for more than seven years, she is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in Singapore.

Often cited in the local media, Dr. Lee is the appointed sex expert for Men’s Health Singapore, and Men’s Health Malaysia. She was recognised as one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women Under 40′ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the host of weekly radio show Eros Evolution on the OMTimes Radio Network. She has published two books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between, and Orgasmic Yoga.

Martha works with individuals and couples in private coaching sessions, and conducts her own workshops. She takes prides in making sure all her workshops are also fun, educational, and sex-positive. This comes easily to her because even though she is extremely dedicated and serious about her work, she fundamentally believes that sex is meant to be fun, wonderful, amazing and sacred. As such, this serious light-heartedness has shone through again and again. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

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