Personal Story: “A mentor of mine shared what he didn’t like about me…”

Personal Story: “A mentor of mine shared what he didn’t like about me…”

Posted On: April 17, 2022

Today marks the anniversary of Eros Coaching – which started on 20 April 2009. That’s 13 years! A mentor of mine shared what he didn’t like about me yesterday i.e. 2 April 2002: that I was so inflexible around things and people. As we chatted, the layers within me unfolded. I remembered some of the […]

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Personal Story: “He basically said he wanted to rape me….”

Personal Story: “He basically said he wanted to rape me….”

Posted On: April 17, 2022

Published as part of Sexual Assault Awareness Month in April Many years ago, I had a male friend ask me out clubbing and if I drank. I replied I didn’t drink but would be happy to go clubbing with him one day. He was being flippant about fixing a time and finally retorted: “What’s the […]

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Visit Ms Durian near my office!

Visit Ms Durian near my office!

Posted On: April 17, 2022

I moved into my new office since 2 Feb 2022. Err I walked past Ms Durian cafe at least a hundred times and tried to go in only today (16 April 2022)… only to realise they’ve been opened quietly… since Feb! Ms Durian 11 Kelantan Road. Open every day 10a.m – 6p.m. except Tuesday. You […]

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Personal Story: “Years Ago, I Asked to Speak to My Boss and Asked a Promotion…”

Personal Story: “Years Ago, I Asked to Speak to My Boss and Asked a Promotion…”

Posted On: April 12, 2022

Years ago, I asked to speak to my boss and asked a promotion. He gave me invaluable input: “In order to promote you to manager, you need to already do what a manager does.” It really hit home. I was waiting for opportunities to grow. I was keeping to my lot. I was working to […]

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Purchase: Masterclass The Orgasm Gap Cure

Purchase: Masterclass The Orgasm Gap Cure

Posted On: April 11, 2022

The Orgasm Gap has been talked about for a long time but not quite enough! In this virtual masterclass, Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee will destigmatize orgasms and explicitly delve into ways in which the gap can be closed for good! The session will address: What is Orgasm? How does it […]

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Purchase: Virtual Kissing Workshop

Purchase: Virtual Kissing Workshop

Posted On: April 10, 2022

“What is a kiss? Why this, as some approve: the sure, sweet cement, glue and lime of love.” – Robert Herrick How would you grade your kissing abilities? How would you like to be a better kisser? Or become masterful at it? Kissing is important. It is one of the most exciting, innovative, and romantic […]

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Personal Story: “I Was Attending a Free-Form Movement Class Regularly…”

Personal Story: “I Was Attending a Free-Form Movement Class Regularly…”

Posted On: April 5, 2022

Years ago, I was attending a free-form movement class regularly and got to know a person whom I knew was a popular NLP coach in Singapore. Since I knew little about NLP, I was curious about his work. After one session, I found myself walking with him and his followers to the MRT station and […]

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On Why I no longer run Single-Gender Events…

On Why I no longer run Single-Gender Events…

Posted On: March 29, 2022

For years now, if I can help it, I no longer run single gender events i.e. women or male, but instead  make sure to state my events welcome people of all sexual orientations and gender identities. This has resulted in less signs-ups to be honest, so uncomfortable are some people in being in the presence […]

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Testimonial:  “I trust you are well. It’s been a great year since we consulted you..”

Testimonial: “I trust you are well. It’s been a great year since we consulted you..”

Posted On: March 25, 2022

Testimonial by client who had Vaginismus “I trust you are well. It’s been a great year since we consulted you last year the same day. We just welcomed our little baby girl on 24th February 2022. We would like to thank you wholeheartedly for your help/advice and for making us comfortable during our consultation session. […]

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My Teacher Was Holding Space for Me as I was Stepping into my Destiny

My Teacher Was Holding Space for Me as I was Stepping into my Destiny

Posted On: March 22, 2022

Years ago when I was attending sex therapy training in Florida, my teacher would introduce me to everybody as “Dr Lee”. I would be embarrassed because it wasn’t true. I wasn’t qualified yet, and quite some way from being a Dr of anything. In the academic world we’re in, I thought my teacher should know […]

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Do You Know These 3 Levels of Listening?

Do You Know These 3 Levels of Listening?

Posted On: March 21, 2022

I’m teaching a three-week Counseling Skills for Couples. I’m so passionate about teaching counseling skills and been waiting to run for a long time because I truly believe it is a life skill each of us should have. Many years ago (close to 20 years ago), my counseling teacher explained real listening wasn’t just about […]

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24 Apps for Meditation, Mindfulness & Mental Health

24 Apps for Meditation, Mindfulness & Mental Health

Posted On: March 21, 2022

Apps – love them or hate them, they are here to stay, and they can certainly make our lives better. Here are some for you to check out relating to mindfulness, meditation, and mental health. I have not tried all these apps, and have no vested interest nor affiliation to declare. 1. Aura: Meditation & […]

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