Help us publicise 2nd Sugar & Spice Virtual Festival, Nov  17 – 24!

Help us publicise 2nd Sugar & Spice Virtual Festival, Nov 17 – 24!

Posted On: November 2, 2020

I recently concluded the first Love Abilities festival (Oct 15 – 19) as well – a virtual sexuality and disability festival www.loveabilities.org which saw 665 people sign up for the 5 day festival. 1,050 people attended the 29 sessions facilitated by 50 presenters live. It was considered successful with only positive feedback from participants.I am passing […]

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Vaginismus Testimonial “After meeting you, our outlook on this totally changed.”

Vaginismus Testimonial “After meeting you, our outlook on this totally changed.”

Posted On: October 31, 2020

“My husband & I had consulted you in early 2019 regarding vaginismus and to seek guidance how to overcome and improve our sexual relationship. Before meeting you, this aspect of our relationship stressed me out as we weren’t very sure what the real issue was. I would attribute it to be some medical condition. After […]

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Journey of a Grieving Person

Journey of a Grieving Person

Posted On: October 27, 2020

On grieving… my mom passed away 27 Oct in 2018 and I thought I’d write some of what I felt as a person going through grieving. I recognise it can be different for different people and I am in no way dismissing the experiences of others, just wanting to share what is mine in the […]

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Do You have Space for Yourself?

Do You have Space for Yourself?

Posted On: October 20, 2020

Written in October 2019. Posting this as the 2nd year death anniversary of my mom comes up: I first started pet-sitting to overcome my fear of dogs and cats years ago. Last year, I had several dogsitting assignments (free or with honorarium) which all involved house-sitting as well – in fact more gigs than ever […]

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Parenting my Dad

Parenting my Dad

Posted On: October 14, 2020

Everyday I wake up grateful for my life, everything I have going and everything I have. Increasingly my daily thoughts go to my dad for the unconditional and infinite love and support I have received and continue to receive from him. He has done more thankless, mundane, and menial things for me than anybody in […]

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I dreamed of my mom…

I dreamed of my mom…

Posted On: October 4, 2020

Two Saturday nights ago (12 September 2020), I dreamed of my mom – the first time since she passed away almost 3 years ago now. In the dream, she was in her 30s and having some kind of white mask (like facial mask) on. I stirred and freaked out in my sleep (enough to know […]

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Abuse is Abuse

Abuse is Abuse

Posted On: October 1, 2020

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month in the United States. Was chatting with my girl friend about the abuse from my ex partners… “I’m glad I wasn’t physically abused. And maybe it didn’t happen because I was clear that was something I would never put up with…” Actually there was once my ex husband threw […]

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Q&A with Yahoo Taiwan

Q&A with Yahoo Taiwan

Posted On: September 17, 2020

This was an interview in Mandarin I did with Yahoo Taiwan. My Mandarin isn’t great and I struggled with it, but I do hope this interview to some of you out there. 【QA直播】童老師與你面對面! 關於性,你還有什麼問題? ft.新加坡性治療師 Dr.Martha Lee View the interview here. About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck […]

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Vaginismus Testimonial “I decided to re-look into your videos and we practiced quite a number of times..”

Vaginismus Testimonial “I decided to re-look into your videos and we practiced quite a number of times..”

Posted On: September 17, 2020

This is a testimonial from a client who purchased my online program on overcoming Vaginismus called Sex Possible. “I’m so happy to let you know that I’ve finally able to overcome my vaginismus condition. It was recently that I (or rather the both of us) truly enjoy intercourse. Quick update on my life since we […]

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Where My Desire to be a Great Communicator Stemmed From

Where My Desire to be a Great Communicator Stemmed From

Posted On: September 1, 2020

I was observing three older Chinese men talking at a cafe because they were SO loud. It is pretty typical growing up and in Singapore actually but I decided to take some time to observe since I do like people watching. I observed: They were talking to one another at the top of their voices. […]

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Student Health Forum: Let’s Talk About Sex Ed

Student Health Forum: Let’s Talk About Sex Ed

Posted On: August 31, 2020

I was a panelist on Let’s Talk about Sex for Real, Student Health Forum organised by Asian Medical Students’ Association (AMSA) of the International Medical University (IMU) of Malaysia (AMSA IMU) on July 18, 2020. This is the recording.   About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by […]

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Sexuality and My Teenage Children with Autism

Sexuality and My Teenage Children with Autism

Posted On: August 31, 2020

A feature by Channel NewsAsia. I appear briefly in this feature highlighting the importance of sexuality education for children with special needs. I’ve been doing volunteer work for people with cancer and disabilities for a long time, but especially so in the last two years because of advocates who support this need within the organisations. […]

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