Posted On: January 12, 2024
Sexual disinterest can be a difficult thing to navigate. It can be a source of frustration, confusion, and even shame. Whether it’s a lack of interest in sex, difficulty becoming aroused, or difficulty reaching orgasm, it can be hard to talk about and even harder to understand. This blog will provide information on the causes […]
Posted On: January 1, 2024
A lot of people don’t like talking about sex. But what if you didn’t have to? Instead, this is an invite to reflect on: What’s your last great sexual experience look like? Was it a one-night stand? A passionate affair? A quickie at the office? Or did it involve your partner in front of a […]
Posted On: December 30, 2023
Language is ever evolving and new words are developed to better communicate what we mean. Check the new relationship and sex terms I wrote about in 2017 which was published in Huffington Post, and 2022! This year, I decided to gathering new words that I’ve learned. These are my new words from 2023! Let me […]
Posted On: December 24, 2023
Autism is a developmental disorder that affects social interaction, communication, and behavior. People with autism often experience challenges in navigating social situations, which can make exploring their sexuality and gender identity more difficult. In fact, studies have shown that people with autism tend to identify as LGBTQIA at higher rates than the general population. According […]
Posted On: December 11, 2023
It can be difficult to deal with a partner who is not willing to attend therapy. It can be a source of frustration, anger, and sadness. However, there are ways to cope with this situation and still work towards a healthier relationship. Here are some tips for dealing with your partner not being willing to […]
Posted On: December 9, 2023
This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later. Day/ Date What JANUARY […]
Posted On: December 3, 2023
Introducing Love Enabled, a 6-part docuseries that follows people with disabilities in Singapore as they navigate the dating world! This series is by Our Grandfather Story. As a relationship counselor and clinical sexologist, I fully support Love Enabled for its powerful message and impact. This docuseries highlights the experiences of individuals with disabilities in the […]
Posted On: November 6, 2023
Taking selfies of yourself nude can be a great way to explore your own body and sexuality. As a sexologist, I support people who wish to take such selfies of themselves nude as a way to become more comfortable with their bodies and to gain a better understanding of their own sexual desires. They can […]
Posted On: October 30, 2023
As a Sexologist, I have worked with individuals with disabilities who are navigating the dating world. While dating can be challenging for anyone, it can be especially difficult for those with disabilities who may face additional barriers when it comes to navigating sexuality and intimacy. In this blog post, I will provide some tips and […]
Posted On: October 24, 2023
Sexuality is a fundamental aspect of human life, yet it is often overlooked or ignored when it comes to people with disabilities. The truth is that people with disabilities have the same sexual desires and needs as anyone else. Unfortunately, there are many myths and misconceptions surrounding sexuality and disability that prevent people from fully […]
Posted On: October 14, 2023
As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, I have worked with many individuals who identify as LGBTQ+ and have seen firsthand the positive impact that drag shows can have on people’s lives. But did you know that anyone can love going to drag shows? Drag shows have a rich history that dates back to ancient […]
Posted On: October 12, 2023
As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, I have worked with many individuals with disabilities who struggle with negative self-beliefs around their sexuality. These beliefs can be deeply ingrained and can prevent them from experiencing pleasure, intimacy, and connection with others. However, it’s important to remember that these beliefs are not true and can be […]
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