Posted On: April 17, 2022
Published as part of Sexual Assault Awareness Month in April Many years ago, I had a male friend ask me out clubbing and if I drank. I replied I didn’t drink but would be happy to go clubbing with him one day. He was being flippant about fixing a time and finally retorted: “What’s the […]
Posted On: April 17, 2022
I moved into my new office since 2 Feb 2022. Err I walked past Ms Durian cafe at least a hundred times and tried to go in only today (16 April 2022)… only to realise they’ve been opened quietly… since Feb! Ms Durian 11 Kelantan Road. Open every day 10a.m – 6p.m. except Tuesday. You […]
Posted On: April 12, 2022
Years ago, I asked to speak to my boss and asked a promotion. He gave me invaluable input: “In order to promote you to manager, you need to already do what a manager does.” It really hit home. I was waiting for opportunities to grow. I was keeping to my lot. I was working to […]
Posted On: April 11, 2022
The Orgasm Gap has been talked about for a long time but not quite enough! In this virtual masterclass, Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee will destigmatize orgasms and explicitly delve into ways in which the gap can be closed for good! The session will address: What is Orgasm? How does it […]
Posted On: April 10, 2022
“What is a kiss? Why this, as some approve: the sure, sweet cement, glue and lime of love.” – Robert Herrick How would you grade your kissing abilities? How would you like to be a better kisser? Or become masterful at it? Kissing is important. It is one of the most exciting, innovative, and romantic […]
Posted On: April 5, 2022
Years ago, I was attending a free-form movement class regularly and got to know a person whom I knew was a popular NLP coach in Singapore. Since I knew little about NLP, I was curious about his work. After one session, I found myself walking with him and his followers to the MRT station and […]
Posted On: March 29, 2022
For years now, if I can help it, I no longer run single gender events i.e. women or male, but instead make sure to state my events welcome people of all sexual orientations and gender identities. This has resulted in less signs-ups to be honest, so uncomfortable are some people in being in the presence […]
Posted On: March 22, 2022
Years ago when I was attending sex therapy training in Florida, my teacher would introduce me to everybody as “Dr Lee”. I would be embarrassed because it wasn’t true. I wasn’t qualified yet, and quite some way from being a Dr of anything. In the academic world we’re in, I thought my teacher should know […]
Posted On: March 21, 2022
I’m teaching a three-week Counseling Skills for Couples. I’m so passionate about teaching counseling skills and been waiting to run for a long time because I truly believe it is a life skill each of us should have. Many years ago (close to 20 years ago), my counseling teacher explained real listening wasn’t just about […]
Posted On: March 21, 2022
Apps – love them or hate them, they are here to stay, and they can certainly make our lives better. Here are some for you to check out relating to mindfulness, meditation, and mental health. I have not tried all these apps, and have no vested interest nor affiliation to declare. 1. Aura: Meditation & […]
Posted On: March 15, 2022
One of my longest friend from polytechnic has a tendency to over explain. Because I cherish the friendship, we have kept in touch over the years despite how different we are. Over time, I notice how drained of energy and how I can’t wait to get away from her each time we meet. Even though […]
Posted On: March 8, 2022
Many years ago, my friend who is an avid dog lover refused to see a life coach I recommended because of the way the coach treated her dog. I couldn’t see anything amiss with her dog but my friend explained: from the eyes, fur, and energy of the dog. The dog was confined in a […]
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