Posted On: September 24, 2019
My past naysayers: “Forget about Singapore. Singaporeans don’t deserve you.” (on hearing what I do for a living). “I don’t need your help. I have three children.” (guy from networking event) My on-off lover of 3 years: “Deep down, I cannot accept what you do for a living.” (on why he won’t want a future […]
Posted On: August 4, 2019
As more people are living longer, the 50s might well be the new 30s. As such, is it truly sustainable to be in a mongamous relationship and not just stay together for the kids? This is a list of books on understanding about and navigating open relationships. I have personally read the first two and […]
Posted On: December 10, 2018
Many of us are innately interested in sex, and hence I’ve created a listing of some movies that has theme around human sexuality. It is by no means comprehensive so do share if you like to add more titles to this list. Do reshare if you feel it will help more people interested in learning […]
Posted On: October 23, 2017
In case you were still wondering about the trending Twitter hashtag #MeToo that happened in Oct 2017, men and women were speaking up to show the world just how common sexual harassment and sexual assault are. It started with a tweet from actress Alyssa Milan. More here. Sexual assault victims in Singapore felt empowered to […]
Posted On: November 15, 2016
I discussed Vaginismus, Orgasmic Yoga and defining your Femininty in this podcast Down For Whatever hosted by Myisha Battle. Listen here. Subscribe for more about Vaginismus in my free video series here. Listen here. Work with Martha Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and […]
Posted On: November 14, 2016
I tackle the age-old question of #sexy in this piece. First of all, why is there the need to be sexy? Next, why appear sexy? Third, why the fixation with being sexy? Fourth, who went out and decided what sexy was for the rest of us? Let me know your thoughts because I think you […]
Posted On: September 4, 2016
This is a powerful video which made me cry and I feel every person should watch it (not just men). Let’s not get it wrong. I love men. I love their vulnerability, honesty, integrity, and of course, strength… but there have been been things done and said to me, as a woman by men, that […]
Posted On: April 11, 2016
I was approached by the author Melissa Burch to review her book “My Journey Through War and Peace: Explorations of a Young Filmmaker, Feminist and Spiritual Seeker“. She sent me an advanced print copy on my request, and I wasn’t prepared for how much I’d like it. Published on 1 March 2016, the book opens […]
Posted On: April 26, 2015
Have You Seen the Latest Dove Ad? If there were two doors, one marked “Beautiful” and another “Average”, which would you choose? Do you have enough self-confidence on any chosen day to choose “Beautiful”? I found this video interesting with words being words had a big effect on everybody who went through them. It reminded […]
Posted On: April 24, 2015
I decided to feature one passionate person every month because there are so many amazing people doing fantastic work, whose life is an inspiration to behold that I thought more people really deserve to know about them. Hence the idea for a monthly Passionate Person was born! Please click on the images below to read […]
Posted On: March 23, 2015
Read here What’s Wrong With The Princess Who Loves Pink? Poem: The Empowered Woman by Sonny Carroll Poem: For Strong Women by Marge Piercy Sure! You Can Be A Feminist And Also Feminine 7 Protests about Femininity (Video) 7 Ways I Nurture My Femininity How Femininity Changed My Life (Video) What is Femininity? 10 Signs […]
Posted On: March 16, 2015
“Clear & well written. Good supportive reference links encouraging the reader to read/check the provided references. Lastly, it does provide one with a gentle question mark of: Why does it have to be ‘A Race Thing’ … gentle enough for in my opinion any type of person to ingest the topic without getting said “grumpy” […]
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