Posted On: May 10, 2020
I did this for myself before I became a Sexologist 11 years ago and this helped me “grow” myself sexually. I’ve been teaching this and decided to share this with you. Make a list (can be mental) of all the things you ever wanted to do sexually but haven’t. Choose what is the easiest and […]
Posted On: May 8, 2020
Besides the normal day to day hustle and immense stress of daily living in the modern world, we now have a pandemic to contend with. Unfortunately, dealing with anxiety has become somewhat of a normal part of life for many individuals in the world today. Although this problem is not necessarily a new phenomenon, there […]
Posted On: May 1, 2020
During this time of the Coronavirus when many of us are facing uncertainty and staying home, I’ve decided to work with my sexuality educator colleagues to offer you some giveaways to support you during this time. Sign up to their offer and/ or contact them directly! 1. 69 Home Activities For Couples by Dr. Martha […]
Posted On: April 8, 2020
When I first started doing volunteer helpline counseling (more than 15 years ago), it took me a while to realise I was buying snacks and filling myself up with these “goodies” because I was so sad and affected by the stories shared with me. I had to stop myself from this binge eating – that […]
Posted On: April 1, 2020
It’s actually been 9 years since I separated from my second ex-husband. All through these years, I’ve been hesitant and afraid of the question: “How can you call yourself a relationship/ sexuality coach/ counselor when you yourself have two ‘failed’ marriages?” It was precisely my fear of such a question that made me hang on […]
Posted On: March 15, 2020
Sexual energy is often referred to as lifeforce energy. Hence this is my definition of Sexuality: Your relationship with your lifeforce energy (the innate energy that resides inside you). You can born with strong energy (nature) and/ or cultivate it (nurture) e.g. exercise/ food. Regardless whether you have strong/ weak energy (vitality), you can learn […]
Posted On: March 7, 2020
Contrary to what people might believe, many couples actually stay together after an affair. These are some books on dealing an emotional and/ or physical affair in a marriage. 1.) After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful, 2nd Edition “Dr. Spring possesses a remarkable combination of clarity, […]
Posted On: February 27, 2020
Based on bestseller The Five Love Languages, I think Asians parents should do more of the below: Hug us more; Tell us how much they love us, how proud they are of us and in non-academic ways; Buy us unique presents that are just for us only (not a future handme down to our younger […]
Posted On: February 20, 2020
When I was younger, I didn’t like endings – play time, be a movie, book, drama series (30+ episodes). I would cry at the end of TV shows because it was so good and I enjoyed it so much – why did it have to end? Later as I grew older and understood that everything […]
Posted On: February 18, 2020
I know what the fluttering of my heart feels like (infatuation) the warming of my heart feels like (in love and/ or loved) the breaking of my heart feels like (heartache) the bleeding of my heart feels like (ache) the crying of my heart feels like (grief) the cold in my heart feels like (numb/ […]
Posted On: February 15, 2020
This is my first video interview with Mothership.sg. 🙂 Please send some love under comments. 🙂 About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in embarking on […]
Posted On: February 13, 2020
Many years ago, I became good friends (and still am) with an older male friend. He was very tolerate of my childish ways and I couldn’t comprehend the depth and width of his heart and patience until I met his wife. She admitted to me in that one meeting that she has obsessive compulsive tendencies. […]
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