Webinar: Less Fighting, More Loving

Webinar: Less Fighting, More Loving

Posted On: May 14, 2020

While it may seem like the world has hit the ‘Pause’ button, this time of confusions and uncertainty, is also an opportunity to re-examine what and who are truly important in our lives.   Lets face it, relationships can be difficult and sometimes while it may seem impossible, with a little guidance, you will find […]

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Relationship Temperature Check

Relationship Temperature Check

Posted On: May 13, 2020

How would you like to have a closer relationship in one month? We are offering you 30 discussion prompts – one per day which you can use to explore having a deeper, more intimate and trusting relationship with your partner. Take the time for your relationship because love matters. 30 discussion prompts – Get deep, […]

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Pay-what-you-can: Love Colouring Book

Pay-what-you-can: Love Colouring Book

Posted On: May 13, 2020

Get this Love Colouring Book and make dazzling designs to share your love! Pay what you can below! About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara Lee set out to make a positive difference in […]

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Stay Home Bingo

Stay Home Bingo

Posted On: May 13, 2020

This is a fun activity sheet that you and your partner can go through with keep yourself occupied, and connected during these times. Let us know how things go? Want more? Download our epic list of 69 activities for couples here! About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck […]

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How to Grow Yourself Sexually

How to Grow Yourself Sexually

Posted On: May 10, 2020

I did this for myself before I became a Sexologist 11 years ago and this helped me “grow” myself sexually. I’ve been teaching this and decided to share this with you. Make a list (can be mental) of all the things you ever wanted to do sexually but haven’t. Choose what is the easiest and […]

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Dealing With Anxiety In Today’s Turbulent World

Dealing With Anxiety In Today’s Turbulent World

Posted On: May 8, 2020

Besides the normal day to day hustle and immense stress of daily living in the modern world, we now have a pandemic to contend with. Unfortunately, dealing with anxiety has become somewhat of a normal part of life for many individuals in the world today. Although this problem is not necessarily a new phenomenon, there […]

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7 Sexy Giveaways during the time of Coronavirus

7 Sexy Giveaways during the time of Coronavirus

Posted On: May 1, 2020

During this time of the Coronavirus when many of us are facing uncertainty and staying home, I’ve decided to work with my sexuality educator colleagues to offer you some giveaways to support you during this time. Sign up to their offer and/ or contact them directly! 1.  69 Home Activities For Couples by Dr. Martha […]

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Letting Go Gets Faster with Practice

Letting Go Gets Faster with Practice

Posted On: April 8, 2020

When I first started doing volunteer helpline counseling (more than 15 years ago), it took me a while to realise I was buying snacks and filling myself up with these “goodies” because I was so sad and affected by the stories shared with me. I had to stop myself from this binge eating – that […]

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My Imperfectly Perfect Marriages

My Imperfectly Perfect Marriages

Posted On: April 1, 2020

It’s actually been 9 years since I separated from my second ex-husband. All through these years, I’ve been hesitant and afraid of the question: “How can you call yourself a relationship/ sexuality coach/ counselor when you yourself have two ‘failed’ marriages?” It was precisely my fear of such a question that made me hang on […]

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Sexuality – The Last Frontier of Being an Expressed Adult?

Sexuality – The Last Frontier of Being an Expressed Adult?

Posted On: March 15, 2020

Sexual energy is often referred to as lifeforce energy. Hence this is my definition of Sexuality: Your relationship with your lifeforce energy (the innate energy that resides inside you). You can born with strong energy (nature) and/ or cultivate it (nurture) e.g. exercise/ food. Regardless whether you have strong/ weak energy (vitality), you can learn […]

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Booklist – Dealing with Affairs in Marriage

Booklist – Dealing with Affairs in Marriage

Posted On: March 7, 2020

Contrary to what people might believe, many couples actually stay together after an affair. These are some books on dealing an emotional and/ or physical affair in a marriage. 1.) After the Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful, 2nd Edition “Dr. Spring possesses a remarkable combination of clarity, […]

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Asian Interpretation of The 5 Love Languages

Asian Interpretation of The 5 Love Languages

Posted On: February 27, 2020

Based on bestseller The Five Love Languages, I think Asians parents should do more of the below: Hug us more; Tell us how much they love us, how proud they are of us and in non-academic ways; Buy us unique presents that are just for us only (not a future handme down to our younger […]

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