The Most Important Relationship Skill is NOT Communication!

The Most Important Relationship Skill is NOT Communication!

Posted On: March 7, 2017

The single most important relationship skill is not communication, it’s taking ownership. Successful relationships require taking ownership of your “experience.” What is your “experience?” Your “experience” is what happens inside your body and your mind in response to events. It is composed of your thoughts, emotions, and physical sensations. Your experience is involuntary, it just […]

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Sex Ed Resource List for Parents

Sex Ed Resource List for Parents

Posted On: March 1, 2017

If you are a parent and are wondering what books are appropriate to begin initiating conversations around their sexuality, here are some resources by different age groups. Download this resource list here. Sex Ed Resource List for Parents Part 1 (Age 3 – 10) Sex Ed Resource List for Parents Part 2 (Young Adults, Parents […]

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Infographic: What Good Is Gratitude?

Infographic: What Good Is Gratitude?

Posted On: January 9, 2017

This infographic shows reasons why it’s better to live gratefully. Are you grateful? What are some things you can be grateful for your life? How about just for today? Let this be a daily practice and watch your life change. Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. […]

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Book Review: Why Men Marry Bitches by Sherry Argov

Book Review: Why Men Marry Bitches by Sherry Argov

Posted On: January 8, 2017

I’ve read this book before, including Sherry Argov’s other book Why Men Love Bitches. I decided to re-read this book before giving it away – I’ve had to downsize my out-of-control library. This is, after all, a New York Times Bestseller and it doesn’t hurt to be reminded of some dating fundamentals being a sexologist. […]

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Books I Read in 2017

Books I Read in 2017

Posted On: January 5, 2017

I had set the goal of reading 150 books in 2013, and 200 in 2014, 2015 and 2016. I ended up reading 152 books in 2013, 202 in 2014, 168 in 2015, and 110 in 2016. Though I fell short of reading 200 books in 2016, I intend to read at least 100 books (halved […]

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Infographic: Steamy Sexting

Infographic: Steamy Sexting

Posted On: December 12, 2016

This infographic shows the truth behind titillating text messages. What do you do? What are your thoughts after seeing this infographic? I’d love to hear from you. 🙂 Who is Martha? Dr. Martha Tara Lee is Founder and Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching. She is a certified sexologist with a Doctorate in Human Sexuality. She […]

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Book Review: A Year By The Sea by Joan Anderson

Book Review: A Year By The Sea by Joan Anderson

Posted On: December 11, 2016

When I picked up A Year By The Sea: Thoughts of an Unfinished Woman by Joan Anderson, I knew intuitively this was not a book I wanted to rush through. Published in 1999 and one of top 10 inspirational bestsellers on the New York Times, I savored it slowly and was better for it. Based […]

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Book Review: The 24 Hour Woman by Cheryl Liew-Chng

Book Review: The 24 Hour Woman by Cheryl Liew-Chng

Posted On: November 27, 2016

I was gifted the book The 24 Hour Woman: How High-Achieving, Stressed Women Manage It All and Still Find Happiness at an event which the author Cheryl Liew-Chng was the speaker of the evening at Woolf Works. During her talk, I was impressed with the five pillars she introduced namely: Appreciation; Awareness; Acceptance; Accountability; and […]

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Interview: The Intimate Woman @ Down for Whatever

Interview: The Intimate Woman @ Down for Whatever

Posted On: November 15, 2016

I discussed Vaginismus, Orgasmic Yoga and defining your Femininty in this podcast Down For Whatever hosted by Myisha Battle. Listen here. Subscribe for more about Vaginismus in my free video series here. Listen here. Work with Martha Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and […]

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Book Review: Getting Naked by Tamra Mercieca

Book Review: Getting Naked by Tamra Mercieca

Posted On: November 13, 2016

After reading Merceica’s first book The Upside of Down, I immediately plunged into her second book Getting Naked: The Dating Game. I had assumed from the title that it would contain dating tips, techniques and know-hows. Instead it contained the juicy details of Mercieca’s dating adventures. Published in 2011, this book gives us a glimpse […]

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Are You Getting It?

Are You Getting It?

Posted On: October 2, 2016

Recently a girl friend of mine confided in me and I started sprouting advice… (obviously, I would speak differently to my friends compared to my clients). She ended our conversation with the words, “Lol. The guru speaks. Yes mdm.” I often wonder why we don’t get education for the most important things in life… – […]

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Book Review: You. Are. The. One. by Kute Blackson

Book Review: You. Are. The. One. by Kute Blackson

Posted On: September 25, 2016

I’ve been a fan of Kute Blackson for a while. He is a charismatic teacher, speaker, and entrepreneur – not to mention good-looking and charming. From the videos of him I’ve watched, he’s always energetic, animated and inspirational. His positivity and energy seems to flow out of those videos and leaves you feel motivated, more […]

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