Do You Hate Women or Do You Just Hate Me because I am a Sexologist?

Do You Hate Women or Do You Just Hate Me because I am a Sexologist?

Posted On: November 13, 2022

*Trigger Warning * Disturbing content and strong languaging is used below. Please proceed with care. Incident one I received this email on Thurs 10 November 2002. “Hey im Joey, you meet every requirement i need, Altho i must say I am a muslim so You would have to marry me beforehand, I want u so […]

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Read This Before You ‘Quiet Quit’ your Relationship

Read This Before You ‘Quiet Quit’ your Relationship

Posted On: October 5, 2022

PRESS RELEASE: 5 October 2022 / Singapore, Asia Much has been said about the ‘Great Resignation’, and in more recent months, the term, “quiet quitting.” Usually assigned to employees and their jobs, the term is rarely used to describe any other aspect of life – until now. Expert Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha […]

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On Relationship & Sexuality @ Walnut Warriors

On Relationship & Sexuality @ Walnut Warriors

Posted On: October 5, 2022

I delivered a presentation on “How to give mind-blowing sex” for the Walnut Warriors prostate cancer support group members of Singapore Cancer Society on Sat 10 Sept 2022. I was super relaxed because I’ve addressed the group several times and they are all so wonderful and receptive towards me. The Chairperson of Walnut Warriors shared […]

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Trigger Warning: Homophobia – We Need Inclusive and Comprehensive Sexuality Education in Singapore by Elijah Tay

Trigger Warning: Homophobia – We Need Inclusive and Comprehensive Sexuality Education in Singapore by Elijah Tay

Posted On: September 13, 2022

Introduction: Sexuality Education (SEd) was introduced to schools in Singapore in 2000, and is “taught in the context of mainstream national values”. Following the announcement of the repeal of Section 377A, the Ministry of Education (MOE) has reaffirmed that Singapore’s “education policies and curriculum will remain anchored in Singapore’s prevailing family values and social norms, […]

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Personal Story: Readiness needed to stand up  for LGBT community in Singapore

Personal Story: Readiness needed to stand up for LGBT community in Singapore

Posted On: June 30, 2022

Recently the Singapore government did a call out for public opinions around LGBT. I shared the link on my social media platforms once I determined it was legit. The next day, Oogachaga and Pink Dot shared it too. Within a day, I believe, the government received 30,000 responses and closed the survey on 23 March […]

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How Race and being LGBTQ+ Intersect in Singapore by Elijah Tay

How Race and being LGBTQ+ Intersect in Singapore by Elijah Tay

Posted On: June 1, 2022

This is a commissioned piece by Eros Coaching. It written by Elijah Tay alongside a friend who is in a minority race in Singapore and who chose not to to be named. Introduction: Intersectionality: “The inequalities produced by simultaneous and intertwined statuses and how that influences the life course of an individual or group”. In […]

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Resources: Singapore Mental Health Help

Resources: Singapore Mental Health Help

Posted On: January 26, 2022

I’ve pulled together a different places to go for mental health support in Singapore. Hope this is useful. We are more common than we might realise and our issues can make us falsely think we are alone. There are so many practitioners and services provided by those keen to support – do reach out. There […]

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Sex News in Asia @ 2021

Sex News in Asia @ 2021

Posted On: January 5, 2022

This is a list of sex/ sexuality related news mainly in Singapore and Asia in 2021 which I took upon myself to compile only in 2021. This is because through my 12 years of being a sexologist, I’ve wanted but not seen a news/ developments listing specific to Singapore/ Asia for the year. Each year, […]

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For Women By Women Episodes : Women, Marriage and Intimacy and Women and Sexuality

For Women By Women Episodes : Women, Marriage and Intimacy and Women and Sexuality

Posted On: January 4, 2022

For Women By Women is a virtual video series by 6Productions. Women, Marriage & Intimacy | FWBW 6 In the last episode, we uncovered some serious heart wrenching stories about love and relationships. In this episode, we dive deeper into one facet of love & relationships: marriage, divorce and intimacy. Is marriage really the grave […]

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Sex News Winners 2021 @ Eros Coaching

Sex News Winners 2021 @ Eros Coaching

Posted On: January 3, 2022

A year has gone by again and so much has happened. I decided to issue my own Eros awards for note worthy news from 2021! 1. The Eros Coolz  award (Very, very cool lah!) Sexual wellness boutique opens in department store On the second floor of the Isetan department store at Shaw House, one can order […]

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Reflections of my 2021

Reflections of my 2021

Posted On: December 18, 2021

Learning is one of my highest value. I am happy when I am learning new things (but only topics that interest me and will further my skills and abilities to help more people). People have accused me of studying/ learning as a needed ego booster/ cover for my sense of inadequacy when in reflection, it’s […]

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