A Glossary of LGBTQIA+ Terms You Need to Know

A Glossary of LGBTQIA+ Terms You Need to Know

Posted On: June 1, 2023

June is Pride Month. LGBTQIA+ is an inclusive term which stands for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, queer, intersex and asexual. While each letter in LGBTQIA+ stands for a specific group of people, the term encompasses the entire spectrum of gender fluidity and sexual identities. A Glossary of LGBTQIA+ Terms You Need to Know June is […]

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Commentary: The Challenges of Raising Children in Today’s World

Commentary: The Challenges of Raising Children in Today’s World

Posted On: February 18, 2023

As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, I often hear couples express their concerns about having children in Singapore. Raising children in today’s world can be a challenge due to the many changes in society. Parents must be aware of the: Increased access to technology, the prevalence of social media, and the ever-changing cultural norms. […]

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Kissing 101 Dos and Don’ts

Kissing 101 Dos and Don’ts

Posted On: February 13, 2023

Aside from its sensual nature, kissing should be both romantic and fun. Be confident and always go with the flow. There is no reason for you not to savor that passionate moment. Kissing 101 Dos and Don’ts 1. Look for a perfect spot Kissing requires intimacy between you and your partner. Any distraction in the […]

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Testimonials – Strangers No More

Testimonials – Strangers No More

Posted On: January 5, 2023

“I attended Strangers No More: NYE Countdown Party organised and facilitated by Dr Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching. I had a great time getting to know the participants and learned a lot about myself through the curated activities. Martha does a great job in hosting and facilitating, There was lots of laughter and fun […]

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2022 Recorded Sugar & Spice Community Sharing Events with SGRainbow

2022 Recorded Sugar & Spice Community Sharing Events with SGRainbow

Posted On: December 30, 2022

Sugar & Spice started as an Asian virtual sexuality festival. After three virtual runs during Covid (some recordings here), we changed them into S&Sx Panel Sharing sessions (recordings here). It then moved into S&S Community Sharing sessions without recordings. We started to record them only after the 2nd collab with SGRainbow, a non-profit community social […]

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Do You Hate Women or Do You Just Hate Me because I am a Sexologist?

Do You Hate Women or Do You Just Hate Me because I am a Sexologist?

Posted On: November 13, 2022

*Trigger Warning * Disturbing content and strong languaging is used below. Please proceed with care. Incident one I received this email on Thurs 10 November 2002. “Hey im Joey, you meet every requirement i need, Altho i must say I am a muslim so You would have to marry me beforehand, I want u so […]

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Read This Before You ‘Quiet Quit’ your Relationship

Read This Before You ‘Quiet Quit’ your Relationship

Posted On: October 5, 2022

PRESS RELEASE: 5 October 2022 / Singapore, Asia Much has been said about the ‘Great Resignation’, and in more recent months, the term, “quiet quitting.” Usually assigned to employees and their jobs, the term is rarely used to describe any other aspect of life – until now. Expert Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha […]

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On Relationship & Sexuality @ Walnut Warriors

On Relationship & Sexuality @ Walnut Warriors

Posted On: October 5, 2022

I delivered a presentation on “How to give mind-blowing sex” for the Walnut Warriors prostate cancer support group members of Singapore Cancer Society on Sat 10 Sept 2022. I was super relaxed because I’ve addressed the group several times and they are all so wonderful and receptive towards me. The Chairperson of Walnut Warriors shared […]

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Trigger Warning: Homophobia – We Need Inclusive and Comprehensive Sexuality Education in Singapore by Elijah Tay

Trigger Warning: Homophobia – We Need Inclusive and Comprehensive Sexuality Education in Singapore by Elijah Tay

Posted On: September 13, 2022

Introduction: Sexuality Education (SEd) was introduced to schools in Singapore in 2000, and is “taught in the context of mainstream national values”. Following the announcement of the repeal of Section 377A, the Ministry of Education (MOE) has reaffirmed that Singapore’s “education policies and curriculum will remain anchored in Singapore’s prevailing family values and social norms, […]

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Personal Story: Readiness needed to stand up  for LGBT community in Singapore

Personal Story: Readiness needed to stand up for LGBT community in Singapore

Posted On: June 30, 2022

Recently the Singapore government did a call out for public opinions around LGBT. I shared the link on my social media platforms once I determined it was legit. The next day, Oogachaga and Pink Dot shared it too. Within a day, I believe, the government received 30,000 responses and closed the survey on 23 March […]

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How Race and being LGBTQ+ Intersect in Singapore by Elijah Tay

How Race and being LGBTQ+ Intersect in Singapore by Elijah Tay

Posted On: June 1, 2022

This is a commissioned piece by Eros Coaching. It written by Elijah Tay alongside a friend who is in a minority race in Singapore and who chose not to to be named. Introduction: Intersectionality: “The inequalities produced by simultaneous and intertwined statuses and how that influences the life course of an individual or group”. In […]

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