Posted On: August 2, 2023
As a sexologist, I have seen an alarming trend in recent years: the rise of self-proclaimed sex coaches and tantra coaches who lack the proper training and expertise to provide safe and effective guidance on sexuality. While coaching can be a valuable tool for personal growth and development, it is essential to seek out qualified […]
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Posted On: August 2, 2023
“I had difficulty with intercourse since my wedding day and was a virgin for 5 months into my marriage before I found out it was a case of vaginismus (after researching online) and decided to consult Martha. Martha was empathetic and knew how to help. She shared practical tips and counselled my husband and I. […]
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Posted On: July 27, 2023
Communication is essential to any successful relationship. When your partner stops communicating, it can be a difficult and confusing situation. It can be hard to know what to do when your partner won’t communicate, but there are some steps you can take to try to get the conversation back on track. Giving your partner space […]
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Posted On: July 20, 2023
Sleep is a vital component of overall wellbeing and mental health, yet many of us struggle to get the rest we need. Getting enough quality sleep is essential for overall wellbeing, both physical and mental. Lack of sleep can lead to a mental breakdown, with symptoms such as irritability, depression, and anxiety. It can also […]
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Posted On: July 19, 2023
Resharing here ‘coz I had a friend ask me about the difference between coach, counselor, psychologist, and therapist again today. Since this wasn’t the first time this same person asked me, I realised it must be just as confusing for many people as it was for me many years ago: Coach – Focuses on supporting […]
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Posted On: July 18, 2023
Despite the cultural and religious taboos surrounding masturbation in general and specifically in Singapore, recent data from a survey by Womanizer shows that it is a normal behaviour that should be discussed openly. The key findings of the survey include: Survey finds 23% of girls in Singapore masturbate at least once a week, guys are […]
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Posted On: July 18, 2023
Everything You Need to Know about Anal Sex 1. Consent Never ever do anything to yourself or to others without their consent. 2. Lubricant The anus is not self lubricating. You need to incorporate a water-based or better yet silicon-based lubricant. 3. Structure The anus has an external sphincter (can control) and internal sphincter (cannot […]
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Posted On: July 16, 2023
I hesitated to share this personal story but I’ve been encouraged to do so. I’m doing so at risk of being judged by putting myself out there (again) because it is too important a story not to share. I agreed to hook up with somebody flying into Singapore for work. I had a rash due […]
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Posted On: July 1, 2023
Financial compatibility is an essential part of any romantic relationship, and especially a marriage. It’s important to understand how you and your partner view money, how you manage it, and how you make decisions about it. Knowing if you are financially compatible can help you both avoid potential conflicts and build a strong foundation for […]
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Posted On: June 21, 2023
Many years ago before I began my training to be a Sexologist, I was on a movie date with my Australian boyfriend. We were riding on a downward escalator when two men who looked like a couple came towards us on the side of the upriding escalator. I nudged my date to get his attention […]
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Posted On: June 14, 2023
I’m glad and relieved! During the National Day Rally on 21st August 2022, Singapore’s Prime Minister announced that the government will repeal Section 377A! Homosexuality has been a long-standing issue, and this historic news is a huge win for the LGBTQ+ community. Many years ago when Pink Dot Singapore was in its first few years, […]
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Posted On: June 14, 2023
In recent years, there has been a growing interest in alternative forms of relationships beyond the traditional romantic and sexual partnerships. One such relationship style that has gained attention is the queer platonic relationship. Queer platonic relationships are intimate connections between two or more individuals that prioritize emotional intimacy, commitment, and support without any romantic […]
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