Posted On: February 24, 2025
Growing up in Asian societies, we learned early that sexuality was something to be hidden – a topic so taboo that even asking questions invited judgment. This silence bred shame, confusion, and isolation in us. Yet underneath our collective discomfort lies a universal truth: our sexuality is intrinsically connected to our humanity, our joy, and […]
Posted On: February 24, 2025
Growing up in Asian societies, we learned early that sexuality was something to be hidden – a topic so taboo that even asking questions invited judgment. This silence bred shame, confusion, and isolation in us. Yet underneath our collective discomfort lies a universal truth: our sexuality is intrinsically connected to our humanity, our joy, and […]
Posted On: February 13, 2025
Navigating New Relationship Norms Ahead of Valentine’s Day As Valentine’s Day approaches, the evolution of relationships continues to captivate attention globally, and Bumble’s 2025 Dating Trends Report presents compelling insights that are shaping the dating scene. As a relationship counselor and clinical sexologist based in Singapore, I am excited to offer my professional perspective on […]
Posted On: January 23, 2025
As a relationship counselor and clinical sexologist, I am committed to helping parents and caregivers navigate the challenges of sex education. A recent case in Singapore highlights the consequences of misunderstanding these responsibilities. A father, intending to educate his young daughter about anatomical differences, allowed her to touch his private parts. While his intentions may […]
Posted On: January 21, 2025
As a relationship counselor and clinical sexologist in Singapore, I regularly hear about the challenges that families and couples face in today’s world of digital intimacy. But there was something particularly unsettling about the case I came across recently—young girls, some as young as 13, were manipulated into sending explicit photos and videos by a […]
Posted On: January 20, 2025
I wrote the following for my assistant because, after all these years, she’s still confused about what’s what. Hopefully, this will help elevate your understanding of different media mentions too—it’s already 2025! Media Engagement: Mentioned: My name is referenced, but no quotes or input from me. Quoted: 1–3 quotes from me appear in a larger […]
Posted On: January 19, 2025
Posted with permission: “Last week, a female Muslim client came to me with questions about her sexuality. In passing, she mentioned having undergone female circumcision (FGM) and thought she had lost her outer labia (labia majora). Thanks to my education on the topic—understanding the various types of FGM, its practice in Singapore, and its intended […]
Posted On: January 14, 2025
Was out in Sept last year but I didn’t get to reshare it till now. This week, I speak to Dr. Martha Tara Lee, a highly respected and sought-after expert in the field of positive sexuality. With a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a Masters in Counseling, she founded Eros Coaching in 2009 to empower […]
Posted On: January 14, 2025
This dropped 25 July 2024 but took a while to publish here. Enjoy this episode! If you’ve ever been too exhausted to get sexy with your partner, too embarrassed to ask for what you want in bed, or too uncertain about how to “get back into it” after a period without sex – this […]
Posted On: January 13, 2025
This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later. Day/ Date What JANUARY […]
Posted On: January 13, 2025
Eros Coaching, led by Dr. Martha Tara Lee, Relationship Counsellor and Clinical Sexologist, is proud to be named the Most Supportive Relationship Coach 2025 at the Singapore Business Awards, hosted by APAC Insider. This prestigious recognition celebrates Eros Coaching’s unwavering commitment to helping individuals and couples improve their relationships and overall well-being. Founded in 2009, Eros Coaching is a pioneer in the fields of relationship counseling […]
Posted On: January 1, 2025
Stress exerts a profound influence on sexual health, impacting both physiological and emotional aspects of our sexuality (Smith, 2018). When stress levels rise, cortisol production increases, leading to decreased libido and difficulties with sexual arousal (Smith & Johnson, 2019). Men may experience erectile dysfunction due to stress-induced constriction of penile blood vessels (Jones et al., […]
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