Posted On: March 26, 2025
đź”´ Content Warning: This article discusses sexual assault and includes references to victim-blaming language that may be distressing. If you’re feeling upset, angry, or overwhelmed—your feelings are valid. Please read at your own pace. Support is available via AWARE’s Sexual Assault Care Centre https://sacc.aware.org.sg or through trauma-informed professionals like myself. You are not alone. TL;DR: […]
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Posted On: March 23, 2025
When I founded Eros Coaching in 2009, the name wasn’t a casual choice—it was a declaration of purpose. “Eros” is a Greek word that means “passionate desire” or “sexual desire,” aligning perfectly with my counseling practice’s focus on relationships and sexuality in Singapore. The Many Dimensions of Eros In Greek mythology, Eros is the god […]
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Posted On: March 20, 2025
People think I am all about sex and sexuality. That’s one way of putting it. Even ChatGPT, with memory on and having “been with me” for over a year, thinks this way. To read my exchange with ChatGPT, join as my Patreon member here! My Mission: I am here to help people be all that […]
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Posted On: March 14, 2025
I finished reading “High Conflict” by Amanda Ripley in one sitting—on and off over 12 hours—because I just couldn’t put it down. I took notes, highlighted passages, and kept thinking, “Yes, this is exactly what I see in my practice!” As a relationship counselor and clinical sexologist in Singapore, I often work with clients who […]
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Posted On: March 6, 2025
Breaking the Silence on Sexual Self-Care This International Women’s Day, March 8, we are amplifying a conversation that has been kept in the shadows for too long—self-care as a sexual being. Women across Asia have long been taught to prioritize others, often neglecting their own needs for pleasure, rest, and intimacy. But true self-care isn’t […]
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Posted On: February 27, 2025
As a relationship counselor and clinical sexologist, I’ve witnessed firsthand how technology has transformed the landscape of sexual health. From the way we meet partners to how we access healthcare services, technology has significantly influenced our sexual well-being. Here’s a closer look at these changes: Online Dating: The rise of online dating apps and websites […]
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Posted On: February 24, 2025
Do you find social interactions draining or challenging? In this virtual one-hour talk, we’ll explore strategies to reframe social interactions, making them feel more empowering and less overwhelming. We’ll discuss how to embrace your introversion as an asset when connecting with others. By learning to honor your energy and personality, you’ll discover techniques that allow […]
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Posted On: February 24, 2025
Growing up in Asian societies, we learned early that sexuality was something to be hidden – a topic so taboo that even asking questions invited judgment. This silence bred shame, confusion, and isolation in us. Yet underneath our collective discomfort lies a universal truth: our sexuality is intrinsically connected to our humanity, our joy, and […]
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Posted On: February 24, 2025
Growing up in Asian societies, we learned early that sexuality was something to be hidden – a topic so taboo that even asking questions invited judgment. This silence bred shame, confusion, and isolation in us. Yet underneath our collective discomfort lies a universal truth: our sexuality is intrinsically connected to our humanity, our joy, and […]
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Posted On: February 13, 2025
Navigating New Relationship Norms Ahead of Valentine’s Day As Valentine’s Day approaches, the evolution of relationships continues to captivate attention globally, and Bumble’s 2025 Dating Trends Report presents compelling insights that are shaping the dating scene. As a relationship counselor and clinical sexologist based in Singapore, I am excited to offer my professional perspective on […]
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Posted On: January 23, 2025
As a relationship counselor and clinical sexologist, I am committed to helping parents and caregivers navigate the challenges of sex education. A recent case in Singapore highlights the consequences of misunderstanding these responsibilities. A father, intending to educate his young daughter about anatomical differences, allowed her to touch his private parts. While his intentions may […]
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