Visual Representation of My 2020

Visual Representation of My 2020

Posted On: January 1, 2021

Happy new year to one and all. May 2021 be a better one for us all. This is a visual representation of my 2020. Read my annual list of milestones I started doing this more so for myself way back in 2011. You may wish to check out the books I read in 2020 here. Heads-up on what to […]

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1st Sugar & Spice: August 1 – 15, 2020

1st Sugar & Spice: August 1 – 15, 2020

Posted On: November 29, 2020

This is just a blog post to document the program of the first Sugar & Spice which ran Aug 1 – 15, 2020. 260 people registered to the festival. The program for the second Sugar & Spice (Nov 17 – 24, 2020) and third Sugar & Spice (Mar 23 – 27, 2021) can be found […]

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Help us publicise 2nd Sugar & Spice Virtual Festival, Nov  17 – 24!

Help us publicise 2nd Sugar & Spice Virtual Festival, Nov 17 – 24!

Posted On: November 2, 2020

I recently concluded the first Love Abilities festival (Oct 15 – 19) as well – a virtual sexuality and disability festival www.loveabilities.org which saw 665 people sign up for the 5 day festival. 1,050 people attended the 29 sessions facilitated by 50 presenters live. It was considered successful with only positive feedback from participants.I am passing […]

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Milestones for 2019

Milestones for 2019

Posted On: December 21, 2019

This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later. In 2019, I ran […]

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Book Review: The Awakened Woman by Dr. Tererai Trent

Book Review: The Awakened Woman by Dr. Tererai Trent

Posted On: December 2, 2019

It took me a while to finish reading this book because carrying it around for weeks doesn’t mean a book gets read – you actually need to read it, and I finally did. It took me a while because I really wanted to absorb not just the words, but the essence of who Dr Tererai […]

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Invite to Women Support Circle

Invite to Women Support Circle

Posted On: October 13, 2019

There is the archetype of the Maiden, Mother, and Crone in Triple Goddess. More here  In my own words Maiden – Prime of her youth Mother – Prime of her fertility Crone – Prime of her wisdom Behavioral Maiden – Young, fun, open, learning, beautiful (Shadow side: Wilful, childish, spoilt, manipulative) Mother – Mature, nurturing, […]

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Testimonials – Sex & Sexuality 101

Testimonials – Sex & Sexuality 101

Posted On: August 19, 2019

“Just as the title suggests, Martha’s workshop has all the knowledge we should have had growing up. Don’t worry if you were not comfortable with talking about sex. I could distribute condoms to sex works for my volunteering work, but I was also shy to even buy condoms in the supermarket for my own! After […]

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Milestones for 2018

Milestones for 2018

Posted On: December 18, 2018

This is a list of events I hosted or conducted which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later. Day/ Date    What JANUARY […]

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Testimonials – Embracing Your Pleasure

Testimonials – Embracing Your Pleasure

Posted On: November 7, 2018

“There was one agreed idea when women were asked why they attended the session. And that is – to break the taboo of female pleasure. Martha encourages self-discovery through getting to know the body by the power of touch and play. Female orgasms are not urban legends! Everyone left feeling excited to go home and […]

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Testimonials – The Art of Deep Listening

Testimonials – The Art of Deep Listening

Posted On: July 22, 2018

In this session, we will practice deep listening – not just for the words, and what they mean… but more… This is a practice circle where there is no teacher other than life itself.  “The deep listening workshop is really good for people who wish to do better in communication. This is a basic life […]

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Are You Their Center of Universe?

Are You Their Center of Universe?

Posted On: June 23, 2018

Last Friday, I was waiting for a bus when I saw an older man with two kids sending off a woman at the bus stop. He seemed like the granddad. What drew me to them was how the two little girls were waving furiously as the woman boarded her bus (which was also my bus) […]

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