Making Long-Distance Love Work: Real Talk About Staying Connected

Making Long-Distance Love Work: Real Talk About Staying Connected

Posted On: September 1, 2026

The Reality of Distance: Love Beyond Borders The text arrives: “I miss you.” Three simple words that carry so much weight when you’re separated by miles, time zones, or even continents. After over a decade of helping couples navigate relationships, I’ve seen that long-distance relationships don’t just survive—they can thrive. The couples who succeed aren’t […]

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Vaginismus, Vaginal Dilators and Unconsummated Marriage: What Actually Helps

Vaginismus, Vaginal Dilators and Unconsummated Marriage: What Actually Helps

Posted On: September 1, 2026

When penetration has never happened An unconsummated marriage is often described as though the couple has failed to complete a simple task. That framing creates shame, secrecy and pressure. It also overlooks what may actually be happening. Penetration may be painful, frightening or impossible. One partner may experience erection or ejaculation difficulties. One or both […]

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Eros Coaching Online Courses – At A Glance!

Eros Coaching Online Courses – At A Glance!

Posted On: August 25, 2026

This is a list of ALL my online courses which you can purchase at a glance… ​ 1. Sex & Sexuality 101 As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist in practice since 2009, Dr. Martha Tara Lee is a familiar name and face when it comes to positive sexuality and expression with her popular workshops and […]

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Navigating Vaginal Atrophy and Painful Sex: Options for Relief

Navigating Vaginal Atrophy and Painful Sex: Options for Relief

Posted On: August 1, 2026

Vaginal atrophy and painful sex are common concerns, especially for those going through menopause. While hormone replacement therapies (HRT) are often recommended, there are also non-hormonal options to consider. This blog post provides insights into these options, with a focus on those available in Singapore, including pros, cons, and alternatives. I’m a clinical sexologist and […]

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Sex Expert Answers Questions Singaporeans Are Too Afraid To Ask

Sex Expert Answers Questions Singaporeans Are Too Afraid To Ask

Posted On: July 22, 2026

What if the biggest problem in your relationship isn’t sex, but how you talk about it? Many people grow up believing sex should happen naturally. Yet couples often spend years avoiding conversations about intimacy, only seeking help when the relationship is already breaking down. Dr Martha Lee, Singapore’s First Clinical Sexologist, explains why communication, emotional […]

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Confessions of a Sexologist: My Conversation with The SG Boys Podcast

Confessions of a Sexologist: My Conversation with The SG Boys Podcast

Posted On: July 6, 2026

My episode with The SG Boys Podcast just dropped, and I’m so happy to share it with you. I joined Josh Simon and Sam Jo for a fun, honest and cheeky conversation about love, lust, relationships, sex, and everything in between. In the episode, we touched on questions such as: Can pornography be educational, or […]

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Understanding Grief: A Journey Through Loss and Healing

Understanding Grief: A Journey Through Loss and Healing

Posted On: July 1, 2026

Grief is one of the most profound human experiences, touching every aspect of our emotional, physical, and psychological well-being. As a relationship counselor and clinical sexologist, I have worked with individuals who have faced grief in many forms—losing a partner to death or illness, coming to terms with their own declining health, or mourning the […]

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Why “Thank You” Is Sometimes Not Enough

Why “Thank You” Is Sometimes Not Enough

Posted On: June 14, 2026

A simple thank you tells someone you received the item. A thoughtful expression of gratitude tells them you received the gift. As a relationship counsellor and clinical sexologist, I spend a lot of time talking about communication, intimacy, conflict, desire, and relationships. Yet one of the most common complaints I hear has nothing to do […]

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The Silent Erosion of Self-Worth: How Repeated Mistreatment Affects Lives & How to Reclaim Your Dignity

The Silent Erosion of Self-Worth: How Repeated Mistreatment Affects Lives & How to Reclaim Your Dignity

Posted On: June 1, 2026

I have done several low-wage, casual jobs in my life so far—bank teller, waitress, retail assistant, flier distributor, dishwasher, airport trolley pusher, and security work. These roles give me a glimpse into different worlds, allowing me to see life from various perspectives, build empathy, and understand the realities of those who do this work full-time. […]

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Everything You Need to Know About Sex Positions —What No One Actually Explains

Everything You Need to Know About Sex Positions —What No One Actually Explains

Posted On: May 4, 2026

Why most advice doesn’t work, what actually does, and how to make sex feel good across every body, stage, and reality. You don’t need 20 sex positions. You need about five. And even those won’t work… if you don’t understand your body. That’s the part nobody teaches. Most people don’t have a sex problem. They […]

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What a Year of Poor Sleep Has Taught Me About Rest

What a Year of Poor Sleep Has Taught Me About Rest

Posted On: May 1, 2026

For the past year, I have rarely been able to fall asleep before 2 a.m. Recurring nighttime hives have not helped. It is difficult to rest when your skin is intensely itchy, and advice such as “just sleep earlier” can feel frustratingly simplistic. My sleep difficulties led me to read more about sleep—not because I […]

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The 5 Love Languages in the Bedroom: Erotic Connection, Self-Love, and Better Communication

The 5 Love Languages in the Bedroom: Erotic Connection, Self-Love, and Better Communication

Posted On: April 28, 2026

Certified psychologist and intimacy/sexual wellness therapist Krish (Underneath the Moon Singapore) explains Gary Chapman’s Five Love Languages—physical touch, quality time, words of affirmation, gifts, and acts of service—and why conflicts arise when partners “speak” different ones. He clarifies that physical touch is broader than sex, and that sex involves more than touch, emphasizing that long-term […]

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