Become a Patron!
Date/Time
Date(s) - 14/07/2025
7:00 pm - 11:00 pm
Categories
Whether you’re new to the scene or a seasoned switch, knowing how to speak up can make or break your play—and your peace of mind. This informal, interactive session with esteemed Relationship Counesellor and Clinical Sexologist Dr. Martha Tara Lee of Eros Coaching dives into what it really means to advocate for yourself in the kink world. From navigating safer sex talks to disclosing fetishes and limits, we’ll explore how to speak your truth while respecting others’ boundaries too.
Come for the stories, stay for the scripts. No mic, no judgment, just real talk over drinks.
We’ll cover:
- How to say what you need (without killing the mood)
- Negotiating scenes and limits without shame
- What to do when someone crosses a line
- Safer sex convos—yes, even in casual hookups
- Advocating for mental/emotional safety in D/s dynamics
- Coming out kinky (when, how, and if to do it)
Bring a friend, a question, or just your curiosity.
Date: Mon 14 July 2025
Time: 7p.m. onwards
Cover charge only: S$16++ (Pay at the door)
Venue: Sides Bar. 100 Orchard Road #02-33 Concorde Shopping Mall Singapore 238840
Directions: Nearest MRT -Dhoby Ghaut MRT (NS24/NE6/CC1)
🚆 By MRT:
From Dhoby Ghaut MRT (Exit B):
-
Walk through Plaza Singapura and exit via Orchard Road.
-
Cross the road and turn right, walking toward Concorde Hotel & Shopping Mall (about 5–7 min).
-
Enter the main lobby of Concorde Hotel (you’ll see Starbucks).
-
Take the escalator to Level 2.
-
Walk toward the right side of the mall — Sides Bar is at unit #02-33.
🚌 By Bus:
Take any of these buses to Concorde Hotel / Orchard Plaza stop:
7, 14, 16, 36, 65, 111, 124, 128, 139, 175, 190, 502, 518
Alight just outside Concorde Hotel, then walk inside and head to Level 2.
🚗 By Car:
Enter from Kramat Lane or Cavenagh Road, park in Concorde Hotel’s carpark, and take the lift to Level 2.
Facilitated by Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Dr. Martha Tara Lee has been a passionate advocate for positive sexuality since 2007. With a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a Masters in Counseling, she launched Eros Coaching in 2009 to help individuals and couples lead self-actualised and pleasurable lives. Her expertise includes working with couples who have unconsummated marriage, individuals with sexual inhibitions and discrepancies in sexual desire, men with erection and ejaculation concerns, and members of the LGBTQIA+ and kink communities. Dr. Lee welcomes all sexual orientations and is available for online and face-to-face consultations. Martha speaks English and Mandarin.
She is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in the region (as of 2011) and is also an AASECT certified sexuality educator supervisor (as of 2018). She strives to provide fun, educational, and sex-positive events and is often cited in the media including Huffington Post, Newsweek, South China Morning Post, and more. She is the appointed Resident Sexologist for Singapore Cancer Society, Of Noah.sg, OfZoey.sg, and Virtus Fertility Centre. She is the host of radio show Eros Evolution for OMTimes Radio. In recognition of her work, she was named one of ‘Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40’ by Her World in July 2010, and one of ‘Top 100 Inspiring Women’ by CozyCot in March 2011. She is the author of Love, Sex and Everything In-Between (2013), Orgasmic Yoga: Masturbation, Meditation and Everything In-Between (2015), From Princess to Queen: Heartbreaks, Heartgasms and Everything In-Between (2017), and {Un}Inhihibited (2019).
For her full profile, click here. Email her here.
