Resources: Singapore Mental Health Help

Resources: Singapore Mental Health Help

Posted On: January 26, 2022

I’ve pulled together a different places to go for mental health support in Singapore. Hope this is useful. We are more common than we might realise and our issues can make us falsely think we are alone. There are so many practitioners and services provided by those keen to support – do reach out. There […]

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Benefits of Online Counselling

Benefits of Online Counselling

Posted On: January 25, 2022

“Is online counseling even possible and beneficial?” The answer to that question is a definite “YES”! 🙌 With the advent of technology, online counseling can now be made possible via various video-conferencing platforms. As regards its effectiveness, research shows that online therapy is just as effective as in-person therapy. Not to mention the convenience it […]

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Wear Red to Usher in Chinese New Year!

Wear Red to Usher in Chinese New Year!

Posted On: January 24, 2022

Wear Red to Usher in Chinese New Year! 1. Red is China’s good luck color, believed to scare away spirits of bad fortune. 2. Red is associated with the fire element, which represents life, vitality, and light. 3. Red is considered to bring good luck and fortune to all. 4. Red color is the most […]

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Why New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Work

Why New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Work

Posted On: January 24, 2022

Why New Year’s Resolutions Don’t Work A resolution is like a promise to us to improve our lives and to make the New Year a better one for ourselves and others. Wanting to make resolutions is a good thing. Unfortunately, after a month or even earlier, the majority of us have abandoned our goals altogether. […]

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What Sexual Consent Looks Like

What Sexual Consent Looks Like

Posted On: January 21, 2022

Sexual Consent is an agreement between participants to engage in sexual activity. Consent should be clearly and freely communicated. What Sexual Consent Looks Like What Sexual Consent Looks Like Sexual Consent is an agreement between participants to engage in sexual activity. Consent should be clearly and freely communicated. Sexual Consent cannot be given by individuals: […]

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Sex News in Asia @ 2022

Posted On: January 8, 2022

This is a list of sex/ sexuality related news mainly in Singapore and Asia in 2022 which I took upon myself to compile only in 2022. This is because through my 13 years of being a sexologist, I’ve wanted but not seen a news/ developments listing specific to Singapore/ Asia for the year.  Day/ Date  […]

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Yes, No, Maybe Activity Lists for Couples

Yes, No, Maybe Activity Lists for Couples

Posted On: January 6, 2022

When sex is interwoven with culture, values and religion, many of us do not get to experience or explore the full spectrum of human sexual expression possibilities until when coupled. I’ve often had clients asked me what is out there to do sexually since they don’t know what they don’t know. Whilst I really don’t […]

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What is Trauma Bonding?

What is Trauma Bonding?

Posted On: January 5, 2022

Trauma bonding is a psychological response to abuse. It occurs when the abused person forms an unhealthy bond with the person who abuses them.   Abuse is never your fault. Neither is the development of a trauma bond.   For anyone who may have developed a trauma bond, help is available. Many organizations provide emotional […]

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The Search for a Cure: A Tale of Sexual Dysfunctions

The Search for a Cure: A Tale of Sexual Dysfunctions

Posted On: January 5, 2022

I asked AI to write a bedtime story about sexual dysfunctions. This is the story: Once upon a time, in a faraway land, there was a kingdom where everyone lived happily and had fulfilling relationships. However, one day, the kingdom was struck by a curse that caused sexual dysfunctions among its inhabitants. The king and […]

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Sex News in Asia @ 2021

Sex News in Asia @ 2021

Posted On: January 5, 2022

This is a list of sex/ sexuality related news mainly in Singapore and Asia in 2021 which I took upon myself to compile only in 2021. This is because through my 12 years of being a sexologist, I’ve wanted but not seen a news/ developments listing specific to Singapore/ Asia for the year. Each year, […]

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For Women By Women Episodes : Women, Marriage and Intimacy and Women and Sexuality

For Women By Women Episodes : Women, Marriage and Intimacy and Women and Sexuality

Posted On: January 4, 2022

For Women By Women is a virtual video series by 6Productions. Women, Marriage & Intimacy | FWBW 6 In the last episode, we uncovered some serious heart wrenching stories about love and relationships. In this episode, we dive deeper into one facet of love & relationships: marriage, divorce and intimacy. Is marriage really the grave […]

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Sex News Winners 2021 @ Eros Coaching

Sex News Winners 2021 @ Eros Coaching

Posted On: January 3, 2022

A year has gone by again and so much has happened. I decided to issue my own Eros awards for note worthy news from 2021! 1. The Eros Coolz  award (Very, very cool lah!) Sexual wellness boutique opens in department store On the second floor of the Isetan department store at Shaw House, one can order […]

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