Until I met the one and what I thought was a natural process of just doing it turn out to be such a tramatic and painful session. I could not, cannot have penetrative sex!

Until I met the one and what I thought was a natural process of just doing it turn out to be such a tramatic and painful session. I could not, cannot have penetrative sex!

Posted On: August 24, 2011

“I always believe in saving myself for the person I marry and I have never really been bothered by sex. Until I met the one and what I thought was a natural process of just doing it turn out to be such a tramatic and painful session. I could not, cannot have penetrative sex! I was […]

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Book Review: What’s Up Down There?

Book Review: What’s Up Down There?

Posted On: June 4, 2011

I first learned about Lissa Rankin because of her work in creating and writing for Owning Pink, which is a community of women dedicated to celebrating all things feminine, successful, sexy and pleasurable. Needless to say, Rankin’s writing was insightful, funny and downright wonderful. I learned from the site that they were giving away review […]

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Book Review: I’m Too Young to Have Breast Cancer

Book Review: I’m Too Young to Have Breast Cancer

Posted On: April 21, 2011

When you open I’m Too Young to Have Breast Cancer, you will be faced with this statistic: “This year, approximately 11,000 women under age 40 will be diagnosed with breast cancer, and close to 1,300 will die.” Published in 2004, the author Beth Leibson-Hawkins wrote this book when she could not find a book about […]

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Book Review: Women Who Love Sex

Book Review: Women Who Love Sex

Posted On: March 10, 2011

Women Who Love Sex: Ordinary Women Describe Their Paths to Pleasure, Intimacy, and Ecstasy, by Gina Ogden Once I started reading the book, I did not want to put it down. It is beautifully and succinctly written by a woman who has had to deal with her own inner ‘ghosts’ and discomforts with sexuality, who […]

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Female Sexual Dysfunctions

Female Sexual Dysfunctions

Posted On: February 3, 2011

Many women have problems with sex at some stage in their life and it becomes more common as women get older.  Female sexual dysfunction refers to one or more of the following issues: loss of sexual desire, loss of arousal, problems with orgasm and pain during sex. 1. Hypoactive Sexual Desire Disorder The opposite end […]

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Fire in the Valley – Female Genital Massage

Fire in the Valley – Female Genital Massage

Posted On: January 2, 2011

“With this massage, you can satisfy a woman to her core … every time!” – Annie Sprinkle Ph.D. In this training, you will learn thirty pleasurable massage strokes and erotic communication skills that you can use on your lover and/or on yourself. Learn from three women as they receive erotic touch. This class includes full […]

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Vulvas and vaginas are pink

Posted On: May 26, 2010

This article first appeared on The Online Citizen where I am a contributor. I didn’t know I had a vulva until I went to sex school. Don’t get me wrong. Of course, I do have a vulva (pronounced as ‘vuhl-vah’) and a vagina (pronounced ‘vha-gine-a’). I just didn’t know what they were called. I couldn’t […]

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Female Viagra: Not what it is

Posted On: May 22, 2010

In the shocking and hilarious documentary ORGASM INC., filmmaker Liz Canner takes a job editing erotic videos for a drug trial for a pharmaceutical company. Her employer is developing what they hope will be the first Viagra drug for women that wins FDA approval to treat a new disease: Female Sexual Dysfunction (FSD). Liz gains […]

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Vulva Drawing Experience

Posted On: May 17, 2010

I am grateful to a brave workshop participant Elaine Lau, 32 who attended my workshop called ‘Sexual Self Discovery’ and came forward with her story. She did so because she wanted to help encourage women to embrace their sexuality and be comfortable with their bodies. It was published in this month’s issue of Simply Her. […]

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Lovers Getting Started with Erotic Massage

Lovers Getting Started with Erotic Massage

Posted On: April 6, 2010

Two hours of erotic teaching for your hands and hearts! Anastasia and Destin are artists and sex educators learning how to be an erotic couple. In this class, they demonstrate the ways they use erotic touch to expand pleasure, to deepen intimacy and to build trust. The first massage session documents Anastasia’s remarkable sexual response […]

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