Posted On: February 13, 2020
Recalling from years ago… my marriage was on the rocks. Psychic: “… You have to leave him or you will lose everything including everything you worked so hard for (aka my practice). In the end… he will still be unfaithful to you… you will lose your mind… leave him. You have to leave him by […]
Posted On: February 6, 2020
Because of the bullying I received due to being physically unattractive when young (especially by the “cool kids”/ “in group”), I’ve grew up being wary of good-looking people and outrightly avoiding dating them altogether. One day, I told myself that I was done buying into the lie that I didn’t deserve it all – the […]
Posted On: February 3, 2020
Ever notice how dating app profiles state anything along the lines of: “Age is just a number…” when the person is older and insecure about their age (especially 45 and above)? “Looking for young/ positive/ fun/ spontaneous/ bubbly/ liberal/ adventurous open minded people” when what they want is a hook up? “Something casual” when they’re […]
Posted On: February 1, 2020
I’m learning something through my interactions with my Dad – not shaming or blaming, just stating/ sharing here. Each time, I asked my dad: “How are you?”. He tells me what is happening in his life – facts. I realised I am somewhat disappointed or dissatisfied with his answer. I didn’t know why. After many […]
Posted On: January 27, 2020
Why do I keep attracting ‘losers’, or the ‘wrong person’, you might ask (pattern)? Why are everybody such ‘time wasters’ (you group them)? Why am I so unlucky/ terrible/ horrible when it comes to dating (internalisation)? I am no self-declared love expert. I am first and foremost a sex expert, and also counsel people on […]
Posted On: January 21, 2020
I started to date a new person only a few times, yet he already brought up marriage a couple of times. Recently when he brought it up again, I replied why it won’t work between us. Instead of trying to understand my point of view, he went into blame of how I was hurting him […]
Posted On: January 20, 2020
Several years ago, a guy I started to see and liked a lot called it quits saying he felt intuitively that I wasn’t the “right person” ending with “It’s not you. It’s me.” Even then, I took it quite personal and wondered if I did anything wrong. Shortly after, he started to date somebody else […]
Posted On: January 14, 2020
I’ve been doing inner work/ personal development for years by now – 19 years if you want to be more precise (since the time I was aware of what this really means). Side note: I’m not saying this as a means of proclaiming how evolved I must be then… I’m just sharing this to illustrate […]
Posted On: January 8, 2020
Your sexuality is an innate part of who we are. So many people suffer from lack of or misinformation about sex and sexuality though, and as a result suffer in silence and often for long periods of time – not knowing where to go to seek support and who to trust. My non-coaches friends share […]
Posted On: January 5, 2020
I was sharing my observations from watching “Undercover Boss” on YouTube with a new friend yesterday: Most of the bosses featured made their millions in franchise businesses. Most of the “star” front-line employees were high-energy people/ extroverted/ bubbly personality. Most of the “star” back-end employees tended to be introverted even if their job was still […]
Posted On: January 3, 2020
Many years ago in my pursuit to heal and learn more about myself, I went to a shamanic soul retrieval session. In the private session, the practitioner told me that she could see how my heart would break to a million of pieces sometimes many times in a day when I was growing up. What […]
Posted On: January 2, 2020
Many years ago, a client who overcame Vaginismus (inability to have vaginal penetration) came back with her husband to thank me for my work with them and complete our last session. She said this and I would never forgot it: Her: “Martha.. it wasn’t what you taught us that mattered… Honestly, we could have learned […]
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