Posted On: September 14, 2023
Microplastics are everywhere. They are in our oceans, our food, and even in the air we breathe. These tiny particles of plastic are having a big impact on our environment, but what about our bodies? As a sexologist, I am particularly concerned about the impact of microplastics on our hormones and fertility. In this blog […]
Posted On: August 17, 2023
Being tricked into bed with someone can be a difficult and confusing experience. It can leave you feeling violated, embarrassed, and unsure of how to move forward. Unfortunately, it is not uncommon for people to be manipulated or coerced into sexual activities they are not comfortable with. It is important to be aware of the […]
Posted On: August 10, 2023
Having children under the age of five can be a challenge for parents when it comes to navigating their sex life. Co-sleeping with children can make it even more difficult to find the time and privacy for intimate moments. But with a little creativity and understanding, parents can still enjoy a fulfilling sex life while […]
Posted On: August 3, 2023
I’ve been working with individuals and couples around relationship and sexuality concerns and challenges for coming to 15 years now, and believe it or not, and I don’t know why I haven’t written a blog specifically about the Five Love Languages. Perhaps because it is so well-known that it seems to need little introduction, or […]
Posted On: July 27, 2023
Communication is essential to any successful relationship. When your partner stops communicating, it can be a difficult and confusing situation. It can be hard to know what to do when your partner won’t communicate, but there are some steps you can take to try to get the conversation back on track. Giving your partner space […]
Posted On: July 1, 2023
Financial compatibility is an essential part of any romantic relationship, and especially a marriage. It’s important to understand how you and your partner view money, how you manage it, and how you make decisions about it. Knowing if you are financially compatible can help you both avoid potential conflicts and build a strong foundation for […]
Posted On: April 15, 2023
When it comes to ensuring a relationship remains successful long-term, the importance of good sex should never be underestimated. Benefits of a good sex life range from everything such as deepening your connection and intimacy, to lowering blood pressure and even improving your self-esteem. But finding new ways to ignite excitement and fun in the […]
Posted On: April 8, 2023
I recently read Sex Without Stress by Jessa Zimmerman and I was pleasantly surprised. This book is an absolute must-read for any sexologist. It offers a comprehensive look at how to reduce stress and anxiety around sex, while also providing practical advice on how to make sex more enjoyable. The book starts off by discussing […]
Posted On: March 29, 2023
Recently, I had a guy say this to me: “Men are taught to repress their emotions…” Now, I’ve heard and read this many times but this time, I chose to ask: “How were you taught to repress your emotions?” He shared: “I was 5 when I expressed my upset in front of my dad and […]
Posted On: March 15, 2023
Dating violence is a pattern of assaultive and controlling behaviors that one person uses against another in order to gain or maintain power and control in the relationship. The abuser intentionally behaves in ways that cause fear, degradation and humiliation to control the other person. Forms of abuse can be physical, sexual, emotional and psychological. […]
Posted On: February 18, 2023
As a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, I often hear couples express their concerns about having children in Singapore. Raising children in today’s world can be a challenge due to the many changes in society. Parents must be aware of the: Increased access to technology, the prevalence of social media, and the ever-changing cultural norms. […]
Posted On: February 16, 2023
Recently veteran actors Zoe Tay and Guo Liang discussed the dating habits of young people in Singapore. They were shocked to learn that young people are more open to dating casually and do not necessarily view marriage as a necessary step in a relationship. They also expressed concern over the lack of commitment in modern […]
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