Posted On: May 4, 2021
The below are a list of recommended Tedx talks that are sex-positive and related to our sexuality. Have you watched any of them? Thoughts? What do you think need to be included in this list? 1. Confidence and joy are the keys to a great sex life | Emily Nagoski | TEDxUniversityofNevada Author of the NY […]
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Posted On: May 1, 2021
What does sex mean to you? What type of sex do you think you tend to be having – performative or pleasure based sex OR a combination of both? What type of sex would you prefer? This is a good one to use as a discussion piece with your partner. Performative-Based Sex Pleasure-Based Sex […]
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Posted On: April 27, 2021
I was on this podcast Girl Code by the Ladies First channel. We talked about sex toys and more! Listen below 🙂 Helping couples and singles boost confidence and provide resources towards achieving a healthy sexual lifestyle? In collaboration with Horny.sg, we have invited a sexologist, Dr Martha over to discuss everything about sexual health […]
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Posted On: April 27, 2021
What is good enough sex? The below include the dimensions of the “Good Enough Sex” model. What do you think of it? Agree/ disagree? What might be in your “Better than Enough” sex? Sex is a positive dimension in life, an invaluable part of your individual and couple comfort, intimacy, desire, pleasure, eroticism, and satisfaction. […]
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Posted On: April 16, 2021
I am so proud to be included in this anthology Letter to My Mother. You can now pre-order Letter to My Mother, the anthology of moving letters: https://www.goguru.com.sg/letter-to-my-mother-pre-order It has received advance praise from poet Yeow Kai Chai Secretmanta Ray: “How and what would you write to someone who gave birth to you? It’s the […]
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Posted On: April 13, 2021
Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist of Eros Coaching Dr. Martha Tara Lee talks about how self pleasure is self love with Intimacy Expert Allana Pratt. https://www.instagram.com/allanapratt Website: https://allanapratt.com/ Please reshare this if you liked this video! 🙂 About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of […]
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Posted On: April 11, 2021
I love my daddy. I think of him often when I’m not with him. I wonder what he’s doing, if he’s eaten, and if he’s sleeping well. The love I have for my dad is more than just gratitude, more than just respect… but unconditional love. Since my relationship with him improved after my mom’s […]
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Posted On: April 5, 2021
I’ve pulled together a resource list for you – media portrayals of non-monogamy i.e. movies/ TV series. I believe that the lack of non-monogamy portrayals makes people assume that the monogamous relationship model is the only one that exists. For a long time, the non-monogamy model is actually the one that is commonplace. When I […]
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Posted On: March 30, 2021
This is a list of events/ articles/ media interviews which counts as my achievements of the year – big and small. I first started doing these annual milestones as a way for me to keep track of my own progress, and only decided to keep doing and resharing them later. This is a bit of […]
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Posted On: March 30, 2021
I was the guest of webinar Intimacy in Dating & Relationship hosted by CEO of Lunch Actually Violet Lim on 18 March 2021. Watch it here! About Dr. Martha Tara Lee Surrounded by friends who were sexually inhibited and struck by dire lack of positive conversations around sex and sexuality in Singapore, Dr. Martha Tara […]
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Posted On: March 30, 2021
This article was first published for PinkLifestyle.com here. Engaging yourself in role-play seems to be a big hurdle when you are a beginner. If you are shy, do some research. Look at pictures, watch porn videos or just google the thoughts you have been thinking about. The next step is to share your idea with […]
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Posted On: March 23, 2021
This article was first published for PinkLifestyle.com here. Anal sex is a type of sexual expression that though not openly discussed is a sexual activity that still great number of people regardless of sexual orientation or gender identity have tried it or are curious about. In this article let’s talk about anal sex: what to […]
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