The Art of Thrusting

The Art of Thrusting

Posted On: October 23, 2022

Are you looking to become a better lover? Join Relationship Counselor & Clinical Sexologist Dr Martha Tara Lee in this one-hour virtual workshop, The Art of Thrusting, to learn the fundamentals of thrusting, and how to use different techniques in a creative and experimental manner. From faster and harder to slower and deeper, you will […]

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What is Evolution?

What is Evolution?

Posted On: October 18, 2022

I’ve been taking biology class because I never did take them. I was in the Arts stream and feel I could do some private catching up class. In one class, this dialogue happened: Teacher: “What is evolution?” Me: “Evolution is when we evolve to something better.” Teacher: “Not exactly.” Me: “I know! It is when […]

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Dating Red Flag You Should Know About!

Dating Red Flag You Should Know About!

Posted On: October 11, 2022

Some years ago, I started text chatting and video chatting with somebody I matched with on a dating app. On the second video chat, I realised that he had a tendency to continuously turn any conversation back to himself – all about me, me, me. He was also distracted, multitasking, disregarding my time without any  […]

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Virtual Counseling Skills for Couples

Virtual Counseling Skills for Couples

Posted On: October 9, 2022

Are you looking to gain the same skills and insights as professional counselors? Counselling is the art of using talk therapy to heal people, and guiding people to overcome their problems. Indeed, you don’t have to be a counselor or want to be one to apply counseling skills in your personal and professional life. This three-session […]

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On Relationship & Sexuality @ Walnut Warriors

On Relationship & Sexuality @ Walnut Warriors

Posted On: October 5, 2022

I delivered a presentation on “How to give mind-blowing sex” for the Walnut Warriors prostate cancer support group members of Singapore Cancer Society on Sat 10 Sept 2022. I was super relaxed because I’ve addressed the group several times and they are all so wonderful and receptive towards me. The Chairperson of Walnut Warriors shared […]

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Playlist on Better Sex

Playlist on Better Sex

Posted On: October 4, 2022

I’ve been contributed expert content towards SheThePeople TV for the past year. These are some curated videos for your easy reference based on previous videos I did for SheThePeople TV. 8 July 2022: How to speak up while having sex? | Answers Dr. Martha Tara Lee, Clinical Sexologist Communicating during sex is just a good way to tell […]

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What Helps with Addictions

What Helps with Addictions

Posted On: September 20, 2022

I have been taking supervision sessions with an addictions specialist as this is an area I want more knowledge around. We discussed the following that can help clients with addictions: 1. CBT Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) is a type of psychotherapeutic treatment that helps people learn how to identify and change destructive or disturbing thought […]

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Trigger Warning: Homophobia – We Need Inclusive and Comprehensive Sexuality Education in Singapore by Elijah Tay

Trigger Warning: Homophobia – We Need Inclusive and Comprehensive Sexuality Education in Singapore by Elijah Tay

Posted On: September 13, 2022

Introduction: Sexuality Education (SEd) was introduced to schools in Singapore in 2000, and is “taught in the context of mainstream national values”. Following the announcement of the repeal of Section 377A, the Ministry of Education (MOE) has reaffirmed that Singapore’s “education policies and curriculum will remain anchored in Singapore’s prevailing family values and social norms, […]

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Fight Fair

Fight Fair

Posted On: September 12, 2022

Fighting fair means expressing one’s disagreement or anger to another person constructively. There are healthy ways to have and resolve conflict. Yet in her couple work as a Relationship Counselor and Clinical Sexologist, Dr Martha Tara Lee has met many couples who repeat the same fights for years, unable to resolve the issues, and the […]

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Erotic Talk 101

Erotic Talk 101

Posted On: September 6, 2022

Your throat chakra doesn’t have to stay blocked in the bedroom as it did for me years ago. I wanted to but couldn’t speak up! If variety is the spice of life, then we can expand our sexual skills progressively. We can grow ourselves sexually and develop more confidence if we just try. By difficulty […]

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Personal Story: Marriage Shock!

Personal Story: Marriage Shock!

Posted On: August 31, 2022

Growing up, I used to watch drama serials where a married woman would suddenly have a different hairdo the day after their wedding. Several times, I asked my mom why and she said, “That’s because she’s married.” Often the characters in these dramas would become worse off (not just from the new hairstyle but personality). […]

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Exploring Ruined Orgasms: What You Need to Know

Exploring Ruined Orgasms: What You Need to Know

Posted On: August 24, 2022

Ruined orgasms have been gaining popularity in recent years as a form of BDSM play that can provide an intense and pleasurable experience for both partners. Ruined orgasms involve the partner who is receiving stimulation being brought to the brink of orgasm, only to be denied the pleasure of climaxing. This can be done through […]

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