I started keeping these annual milestones as a personal record because so much happens in a year that it all blurs together. This list is primarily for me — a way to remember what I did, where my energy went, and what I showed up for. All this helps ground myself in reality when I need perspective.
Day/ Date What
JANUARY
- 1 Jan – Released blog: The Impact of Stress on Sexual Health
- 13 Jan – Eros Coaching Awarded Most Supportive Relationship Coach 2025 by APAC Insider
- 14 Jan – Released podcast interview Ep. 5 / Sexual Self-Care And Coital Communication For Busy Women with The Forties Formulae
- 14 Jan – Released podcast interview: Uncovering The Mind Of A Sex And Porn Addict with Dr. Martha Lee with Listening Well
- 19 Jan – Released blog: I’m proud that I took the time to educate myself on this subject…
- 20 Jan – Released blog: Decoding Media Mentions & Event Formats: Get On the Same Page for 2025
- 21 Jan – Released blog: Navigating the Digital Maze: How to Protect Families and Relationships from the Hidden Dangers of Online Exploitation
- 25 Jan – Contributed article towards Shame Free Sex: Break Free from Sexual Shame: Your Journey to Confidence Starts Here
FEBRUARY
6 Feb – Contributed article towards The Wellness Insider: Unique Ways to Celebrate Valentine’s in February- 10 Feb – Interview: Menopause, Sexuality & Relationships | Expert Insights with Dr. Martha Lee by Sol (Spring of Life) on YouTube
- 13 Feb – Released blog: Rethinking Relationships for Valentine’s Day: Dr. Martha Tara Lee Weighs in on Bumble’s 2025 Dating Trends in Singapore
- 15 Feb – Conducted Sexual Health 201 for RainbowAsia (as volunteer and board member)
- 15 Feb – Release of podcast episode 1 of 20 of Eros Matters: Welcome to Eros Matters
- 19 Feb – Conducted free virtual Lunch and Learn talk: Cure the Introvert in You: Mastering Social Interactions with Confidence
- 20 Feb – Ran 7th Sex Positive Comedy at Flying V. Co organise with Shaiful Risan
- 21 Feb – Attended AASECT virtual training Disrupting Anti‐Jewish Ideas in the Current Political Climate
- 24 Feb – Released blog: Breaking the Silence: Four Asian Women’s Journey from Sexual Shame to Empowerment (Part 1 of 2)
- 24 Feb – Released blog: Breaking the Silence: Four Asian Women’s Journey from Sexual Shame to Empowerment (Part 2 of 2)
- 25 Feb – Release of podcast episode 2 of 20 Eros Matters: Sexology Secrets Revealed
- 27 Feb – Released blog: The Impact of Technology on Sexual Health
- 1 Mar – Released blog: Sleeping Scared: A Comprehensive Guide to Sexsomnia and Its Treatments
- 6 Mar – Release of podcast episode 3 of 20 Eros Matters: Solo Play
- 6 Mar – Start of Professional Certificate in Sexuality Education (3rd intake) for 10 students
- 6 Mar – Released blog: Empowered Self-Care: Reclaiming Pleasure, Rest, and Intimacy
- 13 Mar – Release of podcast 4 of 20 Eros Matters: Porn, Sex, Sex Toy Addiction?
- 14 Mar – Released blog: Book Review: High Conflict by Amanda Ripley
- 19 Mar – Conducted free virtual Lunch and Learn talk: Managing Stress: Practical Tools to Stay Calm Under Pressure
- 20 – Release of podcast 5 of 20 Eros Matters: How to be a better lover
- 20 Mar – Released blog: Dr Martha’s Life Purpose
- 23 Mar – Released blog: Eros – The Divine Energy Behind My Mission
- 26 Mar – Start of Professional Certificate in Working with Vaginismus (4th intake)
- 26 Mar – Released blog: When “Legal Minds” Get Consent Completely Wrong: A Response to Senior Lawyer Chia Boon Teck’s Comments on Sexual Assault
- 27 Mar – Release of podcast 6 of 20 Eros Matters: Too Fast, Too Slow
- 27 Mar – Received the awarrd by APAC Insider as “Best Supportive Relationship Coach 2025” which was originally announced in Jan 2025.
- 27 Mar – Ran 8th Sex Positive Comedy at Flying V. Co organise with Shaiful Risan
- 27 Mar – Spoke about sex ed on CNA 938 – CNA938 Rewind – Let’s talk about sex – A look at Singapore’s sex education.
- 2 April – Conducted virtual Cozymaxxing Sharing Circle: The Art and Science of Pleasure, Relaxation, and Mental Wellness
- 3 April – Released blog: What We Wish to Tell Our Younger Selves About Sexuality
- 3 April – Release of podcast 7 of 20 Eros Matters: Erectile Dysfunction
- 3 – 8 April – Had surgery for Achlasia on 4 April. Developed pneumonia.
- 5 April – Released blog: Trigger Warning: Sexual Harassment, Explicit Content
- 10 April – Release of podcast 8 of 20 Eros Matters: Vaginismus
- 10 April – Ran 9th Sex Positive Comedy at The Cocktail Office. Co organise with Shaiful Risan
- 13 April – Conducted virtual group supervision for sex ed cert graduates
- 15 April – Featured in The Straits Times: Unsatisfied: Half of S’pore women in their reproductive years have poor sexual function, study finds
- 16 April – Conducted free virtual Lunch and Learn talk: Mindful Leadership: Balancing Productivity & Well-Being
- 17 April – Release of podcast 9 of 20 Eros Matters: Period Power & Pleasure
- 24 April – Release of podcast 10 of 20 Eros Matters: Hot Mama
- 26 April – Panelist for Voices from Community: Support and Resources for Women at Flash Forward 2025 — Lead the Way to Better Menopause Care in Asia organised by Sol Spring of Life Menopause
- 29 April – Interview with Kaki podcast under Power 98
- 30 April – End of Professional Certificate in Working with Vaginismus (4th intake)
MAY
1 May – Release of podcast 11 of 20 Eros Matters: Adult Toys 101- 1 May – Released blog: The Harmful Effects of the NoFap Movement: A Sex-Positive Perspective
- 7 May – Released blog: Discovering Your Pleasure: A Woman’s Guide to Self-Exploration and Sexual Awakening
- 8 May – Release of podcast 12 of 20 Eros Matters: Sexual Healing
- 8 May – Released blog: Mother Knows Best? What Our Mothers Taught Us About Sex, Love, and Self-Worth
- 9 – 12 May – Conducted in-person: 3D2N Self Love and Empowerment Retreat in Malaysia
- 15 May – Release of podcast 13 of 20 Eros Matters: Sexy after Baby
- 21 May – Conducted free virtual Lunch and Learn talk: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome: Owning Your Success & Building Confidence
- 22 May – Released blog: Reclaiming Your Sexual Confidence
- 22 May – Release of podcast 14 of 20 Eros Matters: Low Sex Drive vs Sexyal Desire Discrepancy
- 22 May – Supported Brightly Abby for her Blow Better workshop at Goodbye, Alibi
- 23 May – Attended first aid training
- 26 May – Ran 10th Sex Positive Comedy at Horny.sg. Co organise with Shaiful Risan
- 29 May – Released blog: Access Your Pleasure Code: Why Many Women Don’t Know What They Want (And How to Change That)
- 29 May – Release of podcast 15 of 20 Eros Matters: Spicing Things Up (Kink)
JUNE
1 June – Released blog: Eating for Passion: How Your Diet Shapes Libido, Energy, and Sexual Vitality- 1 June – Released blog: Resilient Minds: The Science of Mental Toughness and Emotional Strength
- 2 June – Released blog: Meet Nishita Rao – Behavioral Neuroscience Coach
- 5 June – Release of podcast 16 of 20 Eros Matters: Beyond Monogamy
- 5 June – Conducted in-person: Tantra for All Bodies: Deep Connection & Nervous System Healing as part of Pink Fest 2025
- 11 June – Appeared on podcast The Situation Report | Do Singaporeans Talk About Sex Enough? for Kakee
- 12 June – Release of podcast 17 of 20 Eros Matters: Building Emotional Connection
- 15 June – Conducted virtual group supervision for sex ed cert graduates
- 16 – 17 June – Hernia and cyst surgery
- 18 June – Conducted free virtual Lunch and Learn talk: Navigating Conflict: Mastering Difficult Conversations at Work
- 20 June – Release of podcast 18 of 20 Eros Matters: Coping with Infidelity
- 26 June – Release of podcast 19 of 20 Eros Matters: Pleasure without Limits
JULY
1 July – Released blog: Understanding Grooming: Protecting Yourself and Others in a Complex World- 2 July – Presented talk “Thriving Together: Overcoming Breast Cancer’s Challenges in Relationships” for the Breast Cancer Foundation, Singapore
- 3 July – Release of podcast 20 of 20 Eros Matters: The Sexy Future of Sex
- 11 – 13 July – Supported Rainbow Asia 8th Youth Camp as volunteer
- 13 July – Presented workshop Power of Self Love: From Inner Critic to Best Friend as part of Glow Festival
- 14 July – Presented Speak Up, Get Off session at Sides
- 14 July – Released blog: Chang Yuwen – Financial Consultant
- 16 July – Conducted free virtual Lunch and Learn talk: The Power of Play: Creative Ways to Recharge & Boost Productivity
- 16 July – Ran 11th Sex Positive Comedy at Spectrum Phil Studio. Co organise with Shaiful Risan
- 17 July – Conducted in-person workshop: Touch and Tease: A Consent Playground for Curious Adults at Goodbye, Alibi
- 19 July – Conducted in-person collab Fab 40s: Thriving, Sexy & Unapologetically You at Hey, Taylor
AUGUST
- 1 Aug – Released blog: Vaginismus or Sexual Incompatibility?
- 4 Aug – Released blog: Why I Don’t Do Coffee Chats — And Why Pushing Past Boundaries Gets You Nowhere
- 7 Aug – End of Professional Certificate in Sexuality Education (3rd intake) for 10 students
- 9 Aug – Introduced: Meet Clementine Liu – Registered Counsellor and Sexuality-Informed Educator
- 10 Aug – Released blog: Reclaiming Fun and Playfulness in the Bedroom: Four Asian Women Share Their Journey
- 12 Aug – Hosted 12th Sex Positive Comedy at Flying V. Co organise with Shaiful Risan
- 17 Aug – Conducted virtual group supervision for sex ed cert graduates
- 20 Aug – Conducted free virtual Lunch and Learn talk: Healing Inner Child Wounds: Unlock Your True Potential
- 20 Aug – Release of podcast:Let her finish: 3 in 4 women dont c*m, am I one of them? | Saffron Sharpe (powered by durex)alongside Jonathan Chua and host Saffron Sharpe
- 21 Aug – Presented on menopause at Hot, Bothered & Blooming at Red Dot Campus, Kuala Lumpur
- 24 Aug – Invited Keynote Speaker on “Navigating Digital Intimacy” at the 9th Asian Conference on Sexuality Education 2025, held at Confucian Private Secondary School, Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Theme: “The Intimacy of Sex and Love Transformation: Challenges in the Digital World.”
- 26 Aug – Released book review: Fearfully & Wonderfully Made: Stories from Conversion Therapy Survivors in Singapore
- 27 Aug – Released podcast interview Why People Cheat & Can Trust Be Rebuilt? – Dr. Martha Tara Lee | Snt Ep.1 with Med Talk Singapore
- 29 Aug – Completed WSQ Tiktok Marketing Course training by Equinet Academy
- 31 Aug – Released blog: Can Bluetooth Vibrators Fry Your Brain? Let’s Talk Science
SEPTEMBER
- 1 Sept – Enrolment for Professional Certificate in Sexuality Education (4th intake) starts
1 Sept – Awarded Icons of Change International Awards 2025- 1 Sept – Released blog: Raising Sex-Positive, Gender-Neutral Kids
- 2 Sept – Released blog: When Passion Turns into Prison: My First Marriage and the Hidden Dangers of Love Bombing
- 5 Sept – Released blog: 5 Yoga Poses to Help Relieve Vaginismus
- 10 Sept – Released blog: My New Words Learned From 2024
- 10 Sept – Hosted 13th Sex Positive Comedy at Flying V. Co organise with Shaiful Risan
- 15 Sept – Completed Addiction Treatment: Clinical Skills for Healthcare Providers training by Yale University
- 16 Sept – Released blog: Licensed or Lying? What the Sadia Khan Controversy Reveals About Unregulated Therapy Online
- 16 Sept – Completed training and became Certified Global Breast Health Educator with Know Your Lemons Foundation
- 17 Sept – Conducted free virtual Lunch and Learn talk: Time Management: Mastering the Art of Productivity and Balance
- 17 Sept – Became a Lemonista (social media ambaassdor) for Know Your Lemons Foundation
- 19 Sept – Completed Generative AI for Educators & Teachers Specialization training by Vanderbilt University
- 20 Sept – Released blog: 5 Effective Yoga Poses to Help Relieve Menstrual Cramps
- 20 Sept – Presented virtual webinar The Inside Journey: Mental Strength, Image, and Intimacy After Ostomy for ASPOA – Asia and South Pacific Ostomy Association
- 22 Sept – Presented “Sexuality Across Women’s Health Transitions: From Dysfunction to Menopause and Cancer Survivorship” for WomenCare 2025, SRC Meetings
- 27 Sept – Participated as one of “books” for Human Library event by Rasa Space
- 29 Sept – Released blog: Why “Natural” Intimate Products Can Still Be Risky: What This Sexologist Wants You to Know
OCTOBER
1 Oct – Released blog: A Case for Gentleness: The Transformative Power of Self-Compassion on Well-Being- 2 Oct – Conducted free virtual workshop Know Your Lemons – 12 Signs You Should Know. Watch the recording here.
- 4 Oct – Presented “Living with Stoma: Intimacy and Affinity with Your Loved One”, as part of World Ostomy Day organised by Ostomy Association of Singapore at Khoo Teck Puat Hospital.
- 7 – 8 Oct – Attended AWARE’s Sexual Assault Casework Training
- 8 Oct – Hosted 14th Sex Positive Comedy at Flying V. Co organise with Shaiful Risan
- 9 Oct – Live interview: Breast Cancer Awareness Month with Dr Martha Lee on Kiss92
- 10 Oct – Released blog: The Untold History of the Vibrator
- 15 Oct – Released blog: Feeling Low Libido? Let’s Explore the Causes & Solutions
- 15 Oct – Conducted free virtual Lunch and Learn talk: Digital Detox: How to Unplug and Regain Mental Clarity
- 15 Oct – Contribute opinion piece towards The Straits Times: Parents, don’t let the manosphere raise your child
- 17 Oct – Live interview: Menopause Unfiltered on Kiss92 The Big Show
- 20 Oct – Released blog: Common Vaginismus Myths Debunked by Research
- 20 Oct – Released blog: About Sincere Healthcare Group
- 22 Oct – Presented about sexuality and cancer at Beyond Pink organised by Singapore Cancer Society and Breast Cancer Foundation (as Resident Sexologist of Singapore Cancer Society)
- 23 Oct – Live interview: Age Diverse Relationships with Dr Martha Lee on Kiss92 The Big Show
- 30 Oct – Live interview: Conscious Uncoupling with Dr Martha on Kiss92 The Big Show
NOVEMBER
1 Nov – Released blog – The Weight of Words: Rethinking How We Talk About Bodies- 1 Nov – Presented “Restoring Confidence: Sexual Function and Quality of Life in Pelvic Floor Disorders A Collaborative Approach for Urologists, Nurses, and Sexologist”, Urofair Nursing Symposium by Singapore General Hospital (200 nurses in attendance)
- 6 Nov – Featured in South China Morning Post: How to talk to children and teens affected by early exposure to sexual content
- 8 – 9 Nov – Organised and presented two sessions at Uncovering Eros , 1st sex positive weekend for helping professionals in Singapore at Monk’s Brew Club
- 8 Nov – Hosted 15th Sex Positive Comedy at Monk’s Brew Club. Co organise with Shaiful Risan.
- 15 Nov – Posted blog – The Ultimate Birthday Gift Guide: Asian-Owned Brands in Singapore for Every Zodiac Sign
- 15 Nov – Contribute opinion piece towards The Straits Times – Man enough to heal: Redefining masculinity after prostate cancer (as Resident Sexologist of Singapore Cancer Society)
- 15 Nov – Organised and performed at OutLoud, RainbowAsia fundraiser
- 16 Nov – Conducted 1st Youth Allyship workshop for RainbowAsia (as volunteer)
19 Nov – Live interview: No Nut Novemeber with Dr Martha on Kiss92 The Big Show- 19 – 20 Nov – Completed online course – Perinatal Mood Disorders: Components of Care by Postpartum Support International
- 20 Nov – Released blog – Goodbye Pain, Hello Pleasure: My Top Picks for Vaginal Comfort
- 20 Nov – Conducted virtual workshop Raising Boys in the Digital Jungle
- 27 Nov – Organised 16th Sex Positive Comedy at Flying V. Hosted by DeEnormouS. Co organise with Shaiful Risan.
- 29 Nov – Completed online course – South African children and pornography: A guide for professionals and caregivers interacting with children who are exposed to pornography by Hope for Children
- 29 Nov – Completed online course – Queerly Heard: Queer Couples Communication by Rouse Academy
- 30 Nov – Completed online course – Normalizing Kinks and Fetishes by Rouse Academy
- 30 Nov – Completed online course – Collaborating with Pelvic PTs and Sex Therapists on your Sexual Concern by Rouse Academy
DECEMBER
- 1 Dec – Released blog – Rethinking Sexual Wellness: 10 Unconventional Truths About Intimacy and Health
- 3 Dec – Live interview: From Puberty to Perimenopause: The Questions We Don’t Ask with Dr Martha! on Kiss92
- 7 Dec – Completed online course – CE Course: Self-Care and Self-Compassion (Live) by Modern Health via the American Psychological Association
- 10 Dec – Recognized as Changemaker in Holistic Wellness and Inclusive Health Advocacy (Singapore) by Icons of Change International 2025
- 10 Dec – Attended virtual training Sexual Health of Individuals Undergoing Chemotherapy Treatment by Modern Path
- 11 Dec – Live interview: What is Too Much? on Kiss92 The Big Show
- 15 Dec – Released blog – Top 10 Structural Shifts in Love & Dating in 2025
- 15 Dec – Released blog – Top 10 Breakthroughts in Sexology & Sexual Health in 2025
- 16 Dec – Released blog: My New Words Learned from 2025
- 18 Dec – Live interview: Singapore Dating Scene? : The Trends of 2025 on Kiss92 The Big Show
- 19 Dec – Released blog –When Your Interviewer Is a Predator: What the French Drugging Case Reveals About Hidden Sexual Violence
- 19 Dec – Released blog – The Pink Pill Problem: A Clinical Sexologist’s Take on Why Addyi Isn’t the Answer We Need
- 19 Dec – Released blog – Saving Face, Sacrificing Children: What the Singapore Preschool Cover-Up Reveals About Our Broken Safeguarding Culture
- 23 Dec – Hosted 17th Sex Positive Comedy Show at Flying V. Co organised with Shaiful Risan.
Top 10 Peak Milestones
These ten milestones mark the year’s most visible and externally significant moments, drawn from the full archive above. They reflect points where my work extended beyond individual practice into national media, regional platforms, professional training, and public-facing conversations around sexuality, relationships, and health.
The year included formal recognition such as the Most Supportive Relationship Coach 2025 award (APAC Insider) and the Icons of Change International Award, alongside media features and appearances on CNA 938, The Straits Times, and the South China Morning Post. These moments mattered not for visibility alone, but because they signalled greater openness to evidence-based conversations on sexual health, consent, menopause, cancer survivorship, and intimacy.
Key milestones also involved professional education and capacity-building — including the completion of the Professional Certificate in Sexuality Education (3rd intake), presenting for the Breast Cancer Foundation (Singapore), serving as a panelist at Flash Forward 2025, and speaking at the 9th Asian Conference on Sexuality Education in Kuala Lumpur. The year concluded with multiple live appearances on Kiss92 The Big Show across October through December, and the organisation of Uncovering Eros, the first sex-positive weekend for helping professionals in Singapore.
Top 10 Peak Milestones
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13 Jan – Eros Coaching awarded Most Supportive Relationship Coach 2025 (APAC Insider)
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27 Mar – Spoke about sex education on CNA 938
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15 Apr – Featured in The Straits Times (sexual function study)
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26 Apr – Panelist, Flash Forward 2025 (Sol Spring of Life Menopause)
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2 Jul – Presented for Breast Cancer Foundation (Singapore)
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7 Aug – Completed Professional Certificate in Sexuality Education (3rd intake; 10 students)
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24 Aug – Keynote speaker, 9th Asian Conference on Sexuality Education 2025 (Kuala Lumpur)
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1 Sep – Recognised with Icons of Change International Awards 2025
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9 Oct – 11 Dec – Kiss92 The Big Show (multiple live segments across Oct–Dec)
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8–9 Nov – Organised & presented Uncovering Eros, the first sex-positive weekend for helping professionals in Singapore
About Dr. Martha Tara Lee
Dr. Martha Tara Lee has been a passionate advocate for positive sexuality since 2007. With a Doctorate in Human Sexuality and a Master’s in Counseling, she founded Eros Coaching in 2009 to help individuals and couples lead self-actualized and pleasurable lives. Her expertise includes working with couples in unconsummated marriages, individuals with sexual inhibitions or desire discrepancies, men facing erection and ejaculation concerns, and members of the LGBTQIA+ and kink communities. She welcomes people of all sexual orientations and offers both online and in-person consultations in English and Mandarin.
Dr. Lee is the only certified sexuality educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT) in the region since 2011, and became an AASECT-certified sexuality educator supervisor in 2018. Her fun, educational, and sex-positive approach has been featured in international media including Huffington Post, Newsweek, and South China Morning Post. She currently serves as Resident Sexologist for the Singapore Cancer Society, Of Noah.sg, OfZoey.sg, and Sincere Healthcare Group., and is the host of the podcast Eros Matters.
An accomplished author, Dr. Lee has published four books: Love, Sex and Everything In-Between (2013), Orgasmic Yoga: Masturbation, Meditation and Everything In-Between (2015), From Princess to Queen: Heartbreaks, Heartgasms and Everything In-Between (2017), and {Un}Inhihibited (2019). Her contributions have been recognized with numerous honors, including Her World’s Top 50 Inspiring Women under 40 (2010), CozyCot’s Top 100 Inspiring Women (2011), Global Woman of Influence (2024), the Most Supportive Relationship Coach (Singapore Business Awards, APAC Insider, 2025), and the Icon of Change International Award (2025).
You can read the testimonials she’s received over years here. For her full profile, click here. Email her here.

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